SOMEONE SAY GUN

lol

That's down the Firarms-chat channel.

Gunn? As in director James Gunn?

that is a firable offense

is your chamber empty or does someone need to reload it?

Well I am at work so yeah my chambers are empty

lol ah fair be sure to stock up on that ammo

This Kavanaugh accuser could be a phoenix wright character, swear to gawd.

What a ridiculous farce.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Q-VMxOBuM8

On another note

I found an image.

I hope you enjoy the image.

what dose rule 7 mean? "7. Do not contact the subject of Tim’s videos, under any circumstance"

It means don't give the SJWs any victimhood fuel.

"Tim's fans attacked me! He's a bully!"

got it

@Deleted User I didn't scroll back too far, but from what I read, I think this advice fits. Don't pursue serious relationships until you are 35+

Or find a cougar willing to date young

??? Really kek

But that advice doesn't work for women since they have more value the younger they are.

Yeah

Older women have to lower their standards, maybe help prevent a future Elliot Rodger or two

no, @Risotto, I don't think that really works either. Men will change with age. What they look for in a woman will change. The same is true for women.

Well they can be spinsters then

Enjoy ladies

So, if you go for a cougar when you are young, you might have fun, but it's not going to make for a meaningful long term relationship.

Not everything has to be long term

I'm not saying don't do it. But I started with "Don't pursue serious relationships until you are 35+" because earlier he said he wanted a family.

Young woman want what is terrible for them. I did terrible in the marketplace when I was young. Spent 10 years married. Couldn't believe the quality of women that were interested in me when I became single again.

Oh I see, in context that's a good reply.

Mind fucking blowing women.

I wish I had waited. I wish I had known that time was on my side.

It's only really on your side if you're accruing resources during that time.

@Malt_Hitman is very right. Time is not on women's side, but it is on men's. And If you are not feeling good about things as a young man... wait it out. hone your skills.

we got married fairly young, worked out quite nicely

I'd say marry young, wait a few years to have kids; have a solid foundation for your relationship

In some sense, depending on the women, it might be better to get married when you have nothing. At least then you lessen the chance that she's just a gold digger looking for a quick payout.

plus, the non-feminist ladies are usually looking younger, so you're more likely to find them then

Oh yeah! Got to save for the future. And really work on yourself as a person, social skills etc. I cringe to think of the stupid shit I did when I was young because I just didn't understand how I was perceived.

Yeah old NEETs are just uglier versions of young NEETs sadly

I think it helps a marriage if you finish that growing up together - helps you grow in more compatible ways

when you're older, you're less flexible

@madchatter If 2 people who are going to be attracted to the same thing in 20 years are lucky enough to meet when they are young... sure.

But, I'm pretty jaded on that idea at this point.

relationships are a choice, not an accident

you have to decide to be all in; it really changes your mindset

both have to

Marriages are like a corporation IMHO, it's a way to get a tax break and manage jointly used assets

I spent a lot of time in divorced fathers groups and the biggest take away I got (other than some men are shit and I wish they didn't try to play it off like they are one of use) is that if they hadn't got married in their 20s, they would have had any interest in each other in their mid 30s.

So....suicide pact?

lol

I've got a friend in a murder-suicide pact. Not really my thing. I found a partner. We come home to each other every day because we want to. At any point either one of us can not come home.

It's very reassuring to know that your partner chooses you every day. It's not a legal obligation.

I've got many relatives that have been married decades, most married young; nearly all gave me the advice to that marriage is about commitment, not just attraction

We keep our finances separate. She bought the house. I pay her rent. If we split, the equity is hers. We make up our "pre-nup" as we go.

I hope that keeps working out for you.

👍 over ten years and it just keeps getting better :)

@madchatter of course marriage is about commitment. And when a woman is no longer committed, she gets everything she wants. That is the default pre-nup that you sign with your marriage license if you don't sign a different one.

we agreed from the beginning that divorce was off the table

I know plenty of happily married people

@madchatter sure, divorce wasn't an option for us either. we me in church. kept our relationship pure. had our first kiss at our wedding. shared our devout Christian values... until she decided it was a mistake. there are NO ASSURANCES. even when you "do everything right".

no, but there are things that can affect the outcome

open communication being one of the biggest

I'm not saying I doubt you, @madchatter . I'm happy for you. But you have to recognize that you dodged a statistical bullet.

by making it 10 years, you beat the greatest set of odds.

50% of marriages end in divorce. The rest end in death. Or so the joke goes.

I guess I'm just saying that it's not as random chance as people tend to think, but I do want to be careful here to not insult anyone who's had problems :/

the next barrier is getting your kids through college.

pull that off and you pretty much got it.

meh. I didn't bring it up to deabe with you, @madchatter . I was addressing @Deleted User who seems to have dropped off.

Isn't it 30% of first time marriages in the US end in divorce?

The 50% is from stupid people who keep getting married and divorced multiple times

our early relationship was a lot of arguing - we both have strong personalities - but we worked through it, and I hate to see how some people (not saying you, just people in general) give up instead of fighting, and just wait for the magical "perfect" person to come along

The joke is 50/50. Reality is far less funny.

no one is perfect, everyone will disappoint you, you just gotta find someone who will stubborn it out with you

That's why I don't bother to set high expectations and make sure to disappoint early and often 👍

the longer you're together, the better you know each other, the easier it gets

@madchatter at some point men with guns tell you where you are and are not welcome. You don't keep fighting at that point.

@Schedrevka lol

@brunobronosky I'm sorry your experience was so crappy :/

meh. ancient history. I'm over it.

He's a green tag so he's throwing his shekel monies to be a part of the Cult of the Beanie.

This is a cyber-bully free zone. 😤

Are you sure it's not a Christian discord server?

are you bored?

Me?

yeah

More just bitter than bored.

:(

whatcha bitter about?

Plenty of stuff but I'd say the top three things would be allergies, heart burn, and fleas.

omg fleas suck

@Malt_Hitman You. Dick. I'm sorry I asked. Now I'm itching.

lol

Victory!

the vacuum is your friend