Message from @Malt_Hitman

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2018-09-24 05:09:26 UTC  

what dose rule 7 mean? "7. Do not contact the subject of Tim’s videos, under any circumstance"

2018-09-24 05:13:03 UTC  

It means don't give the SJWs any victimhood fuel.

2018-09-24 05:13:19 UTC  

"Tim's fans attacked me! He's a bully!"

2018-09-24 05:13:24 UTC  

got it

2018-09-24 05:24:57 UTC  

@Deleted User I didn't scroll back too far, but from what I read, I think this advice fits. Don't pursue serious relationships until you are 35+

2018-09-24 05:25:28 UTC  

Or find a cougar willing to date young

2018-09-24 05:25:41 UTC  

??? Really kek

2018-09-24 05:26:33 UTC  

But that advice doesn't work for women since they have more value the younger they are.

2018-09-24 05:27:12 UTC  

Yeah

2018-09-24 05:27:36 UTC  

Older women have to lower their standards, maybe help prevent a future Elliot Rodger or two

2018-09-24 05:28:00 UTC  

no, @Risotto, I don't think that really works either. Men will change with age. What they look for in a woman will change. The same is true for women.

2018-09-24 05:28:18 UTC  

Well they can be spinsters then

2018-09-24 05:28:25 UTC  

Enjoy ladies

2018-09-24 05:29:02 UTC  

So, if you go for a cougar when you are young, you might have fun, but it's not going to make for a meaningful long term relationship.

2018-09-24 05:29:15 UTC  

Not everything has to be long term

2018-09-24 05:29:59 UTC  

I'm not saying don't do it. But I started with "Don't pursue serious relationships until you are 35+" because earlier he said he wanted a family.

2018-09-24 05:31:13 UTC  

Young woman want what is terrible for them. I did terrible in the marketplace when I was young. Spent 10 years married. Couldn't believe the quality of women that were interested in me when I became single again.

2018-09-24 05:31:33 UTC  

Oh I see, in context that's a good reply.

2018-09-24 05:31:48 UTC  

Mind fucking blowing women.

2018-09-24 05:32:29 UTC  

I wish I had waited. I wish I had known that time was on my side.

2018-09-24 05:33:30 UTC  

It's only really on your side if you're accruing resources during that time.

2018-09-24 05:33:32 UTC  

@Malt_Hitman is very right. Time is not on women's side, but it is on men's. And If you are not feeling good about things as a young man... wait it out. hone your skills.

2018-09-24 05:33:56 UTC  

we got married fairly young, worked out quite nicely

2018-09-24 05:34:31 UTC  

I'd say marry young, wait a few years to have kids; have a solid foundation for your relationship

2018-09-24 05:34:40 UTC  

In some sense, depending on the women, it might be better to get married when you have nothing. At least then you lessen the chance that she's just a gold digger looking for a quick payout.

2018-09-24 05:35:41 UTC  

plus, the non-feminist ladies are usually looking younger, so you're more likely to find them then

2018-09-24 05:36:05 UTC  

Oh yeah! Got to save for the future. And really work on yourself as a person, social skills etc. I cringe to think of the stupid shit I did when I was young because I just didn't understand how I was perceived.

2018-09-24 05:36:26 UTC  

Yeah old NEETs are just uglier versions of young NEETs sadly

2018-09-24 05:37:01 UTC  

I think it helps a marriage if you finish that growing up together - helps you grow in more compatible ways

2018-09-24 05:37:17 UTC  

when you're older, you're less flexible

2018-09-24 05:37:37 UTC  

@madchatter If 2 people who are going to be attracted to the same thing in 20 years are lucky enough to meet when they are young... sure.

2018-09-24 05:38:09 UTC  

But, I'm pretty jaded on that idea at this point.

2018-09-24 05:39:00 UTC  

relationships are a choice, not an accident

2018-09-24 05:39:39 UTC  

you have to decide to be all in; it really changes your mindset

2018-09-24 05:39:47 UTC  

both have to

2018-09-24 05:40:13 UTC  

Marriages are like a corporation IMHO, it's a way to get a tax break and manage jointly used assets

2018-09-24 05:40:16 UTC  

I spent a lot of time in divorced fathers groups and the biggest take away I got (other than some men are shit and I wish they didn't try to play it off like they are one of use) is that if they hadn't got married in their 20s, they would have had any interest in each other in their mid 30s.

2018-09-24 05:40:21 UTC  

So....suicide pact?

2018-09-24 05:41:27 UTC  

lol

2018-09-24 05:41:47 UTC  

I've got a friend in a murder-suicide pact. Not really my thing. I found a partner. We come home to each other every day because we want to. At any point either one of us can not come home.

2018-09-24 05:42:55 UTC  

It's very reassuring to know that your partner chooses you every day. It's not a legal obligation.