It's a silly thing to worry about though.

When younger, most females just want short relationships.

indeed

Jump between guys.

So dating in high school, there is no beta males or alpha.

Well, most females who are wiling to date younger men, yes.

Just who has confidence to go through with dating and can catch the hints.

but given that the left seems to be filled with basically sexual predators, who are usually incel-like in their disturbing efforts to prostrate themselves in front of their feminine idols (and later victims), anyone with half a back bone and able to talk to women is an "alpha"

Well because I am hard of hearing, I love to people watch.

I found out many social ques by watching people.

And I used that to my advantage.

>.>

we are talking cuck level beta's here who are so ineffective in life they can't even find a woman to cuck for.

people-hearing is not all that special anyhow

Oh so like... the level that they are unable to get a woman, even if they have confidence.

Wow... didn't think that was possible.

Always thought anyone can get a wife or girlfriend if they try hard enough.

Well, confidence without certainty is arrogance

its impossible to have confidence for them

certainty without confidence is humility

remember, confidence is "toxic masculinity"

look at all the things claimed to be "toxic masculinity"

Oh so they are set up to fail in the left.

Because confidence is consider toxic, they avoid anything toxic.

Thus they won't be able to get any girlfriend?

half or most don't apply to incels, and incels are where half of your real creeps are.

@Dusty Morgan I think grenade is overstating the link between left political views and an inability to confidently approach women.

it is hyperbole, yes

getting a wife or a girlfriend isn't particularly hard but finding a *good* one is the tough part. hell, just finding any *person* that i want to talk to more than a few minutes is honestly pretty tough these days

It's easy to find somebody who will put up with your shit... if you'll put up with all of theirs.

Joey... I agree with you there.

One of the things that made it very easy for me to date, is that I am very approachable and very kind. I am willing to go out of my way to do things for them. But I am also level headed, so I don't let them walk over me.

I have a line.

i have been in multiple relationships where they wanted to do the whole marriage deal and i just couldn't pull the trigger

You can just seem like a pushover.

one of them i have since realized i probably should have pulled the trigger but what can you do?

Joey.... I had one woman like that, that one that blew me away and made me want to carry the world on my shoulder sfor.

I think I'm done dating girls I would not consider marrying.

Well, mostly done.

She ended up breaking it off thanks to her family. They did a background check on me and found my dad.

My dad was into drugs and was in prison.