That is also part of why women advocate for equality of outcome.

So you're saying women are a force that opposes compassion? @Doshin you may be right seen how many of them can laugh about violence inflicted on espacialy men

Another issue is that they tend to be collectivist and have a higher degree of ingroup preference than men.

not against compassion

they are like the masters of compassino

im not so sure compassion is common in women tbh

they know when its stops being compassion and starts to suffocate

The more power women get, the more due process is also being deteriorated.

just like rough and tumble play is to teach the borders of play and fighting

I think it's a lie that women are compassionate.

oh come on. put 5 women in an office at work, and look how they attack themselves

women don't even like women

its not compassion for everyone its the protection of those they see as weak

compassion is not to be confused with unending kindness

Women, evolutionarily, had to be able to re-attach themselves to a new partner if their current partner died. Romantic love is close to the male version of love, which attaches itself to a particular woman, as the man has to continue to provide for the woman who carries his offspring.

A woman, however, carries her own genetic progeny with here, and is therefor free to re-attach to another male.

The reason why romantic love is being sold to is is because female love doesn't make as much commercial sense. No Valentine's Day would ever be financed that way, and no diamond rings would be sold.

Women are human beings, men are human doings.

It is also a requirement for male disposability and the reason why we universally feel more compassion towards women than men. If a woman cries, many people instinctively become protective. If a man cries, many people feel disgust or even hatred.

ok so can somebody explain why when my mother died i was only kinda sad

Was she a piece of shit?

not at all

Did she constantly beat you like mine?

maybe you have limited capacity for empathy

OH, nvm.

thats what i was thinking

There can be many reasons for that, not necessarily unhealthy ones.

because you handle grief differently from other people?

If she had to put up with a prolonged struggle, the feelings of relief can mix in with the feelings of grief.

no it was rather sudden

she always said i appeared nonchalant

It might have been precisely because it was so sudden. When my friend died, it had to really sink in for a while.

I was just numb for a long time.

i didnt cry till i got home which was like 15-20 mins after they told me she wouldnt make it

Yes.

maybe its that you are deeply aware that theres nothing you can do, its kind of just a fact that hits you and you instantly accept it

That makes sense for something big like that to connect emotinoally.

I was in shock and denial at first over the death of my friend.

It was the same with my grandparents.

Only when the memories came flooding back did it really connect that they are gone.

well when they asked me if i wanted them to keep her on life support i told them not to