According to undead @Black cat, its the woman's fault

so no

must act, as in they're expected to, and if they don't they're mocked,

If women however do it they're coddled and told its not their fault

as for you @Black cat , define "Toxic relationship"

When women fall on hard times, they are not left to die in the street. They can turn on the water works and they have an entire army of retarded simps like you come to their rescue.

I've been on twitter see 😄 Toxic relationship can range from "He beats me and penetrates me when he wants, even in the middle of the night, then lies about me and keeps me indoors" to "He wont buy me shoes, should i stop taking birth control? he's so toxic to my freedom to be a woman"

You really need to get that retarded simping behavior out of your system.

More on a side of arguements and generally horrible at times.

Either women are adults - then treat them as such - or they are children.

Make up your mind, Codes.

Wol, obviously that second is not a toxic relationship

Are women adults or children?

Women are people

Oh, but the woman was at the mercy of the man?

and we should hold EVERYone

I know that, you know that, but people still phrase it as one, hence i wanna know what parameters black cat sets for the question

including women, to same standard

Why do you blame the man for the relationship then?

also define "generally horrible at times", shouting? demeaning? or physical?

There were two people in the relationship.

Why was the woman the victim?

Did he tie her down?

Shouting and physical

Did he threaten her at gun point?

Did she not have a phone to dial 911?

According to undeaad @Black cat, its the womans fault

Stop your idiotic simping.

If your story makes no more sense when you swap the genders, you are not treating men and women equally.

even if he rapes her constantly

When I swap the genders in your story, it makes no sense. It turns into a complete cringe fest.

OH, so now she was raped?

Well, that's a new one.

who was?

How far are you going to up the ante?

I have no idea who this guy is talking about

I can only assume he is projecting

Its not simple for my mother to leave a person like my father cause of two things, money and place to live

I mean argument is bound to happen in a relationship @Black cat

Ah, so she is financially dependent.

does he constantly beat her?

Name me which men we would feel sorry for.

if its physical they should leave,

Shouting depends on what falls under it, insults/demeaning/threatening = big nope, gtfo
just passionate loud voice is still acceptable imo

Not as much.

If a man is financially dependent on a woman, we do not call him a victim. We call him a loser.