Message from @Cody
Discord ID: 516233750619881474
Stop acting like a communist and get the fuck over it
Reality aint that KIND to you
Sorry bud
"His wife who fed these kids and took part in everything from planning to execution, was released from prison a few years ago after serving iirc 12 years of her max sentence or something"
"Yeah, and i don't think we should do that"
congrats, you have agreed with undead's argument.
Not at all
Undead thinks we should do that
Becuase he wants to abuse his partner
But cant
no, that is your version of his argument you made up.
Block codes.
Do it.
It's called quality control.
That is all he got out of an argument that has gone on for almost FIVE FUCKING HOURS.
Then please tell me, at what point do we start to blame abusers and not victims?
I am not blocking him. I am just going to keep ignoring his bull shit.
Maybe life feeds him a red pill one day.
Cause you still havnt answered that question
We live in the West in 2018.
Codes, here is some very important life advice for you:
If a woman tells you some sob story while she supposedly stayed with an abuser for years - RUN! Don't look back. Just run.
These women are toxic and there is a reason they are single mothers.
at what point do we start to blame abusers and not victims?
They are either serial bad decision makers or themselves abusive. Either way, you don't want to fucking stay around.
3 out of the 4 last dates I had comprised at least one sob story on behalf of the woman who she was a passive receptacle for some abusive person with a penis.
Get your head out of the sand.
Victimhood is currency.
Dude, I am asking honestly, The only thing I have seen from you today, "A women shouldnt have dated that guy."
"its her fault"
at what point is it not her fault
Swap the genders in the story and if it sounds different to you because the person now has a penis, it is YOU who has a double standard.
Women are already at a decisive advantage in relationships. They can destroy a man in hundred ways.
i believe the point is not that she is at fault for being abused, she is at fault for not making the choice to leave.
If a woman tells you a sob story, you should ask:
"Why didn't you act like an adult and dealt with it?"
You will invariably hear some excuse.
How do you "DEALT" with it?
THE WAY ADULTS DEAL WITH THEIR FUCKING PROBLEMS.
They don't blame them on others.
And that is by walking away got it
YES
That can be one solution.
And what if they love them?