I love my wife and I love what we have

Don't wanna fuck it up

Same man

When home girl hit me up last week my first message to her was pretty much "listen I'm sorry for the way I acted and the way we talked, I love my wife and family, and don't want to ruin that"

Especially with someone as... Low Value as my ex like fr she has zero life skills and did nothing but waste so much of my energy

Smart

Dude same

God it feels good to actually talk about this, I've had these thoughts for like 5 years and never shared them

This hoe still works at home depot and lives with her parents. She literally just saves money to travel to different countries and pork random dudes

Good man

It's cool we're all safe here but still a level of anonymity

My ex literally dropped out of musical theatre college because she couldn't get any roles and now she works at sbux and lives with 3 people, she's 26

Right

😂

My ex is 27 man

Like musical theatre college is the easiest college

How dumb do you have to be

Idk how these people are pushing middle aged and not trying to better themselves

And then it's like, how dumb do *I* have to be if I want to talk to her again sometimes?

So I just actively prevent any contact

I mean I feel you man. I went through the same thing. And I'm really glad nothing ever happened

I'm so happy I don't subscribe to that "hear wants what the heart wants" bullshit

Yeah bro, sometimes it's not even the heart

It's a combo of my dick and nostalgia

Dude you get it

I was stationed at Fort Campbell and thought "well she's 1500 miles away, can't hurt to snap her"

Yike

Then the snaps started rolling in "when you coming home on leave?"

Yike

X2

Super glad I didn't follow through on anything man

I'm happy for you

I thought she was super fucking attractive plus she got a boob job too

Triple mf D's man on a petite girl

The other thing that keeps me from ever contacting mine is the fact that she's *an untrustworthy hoe* and would probably blackmail me

Ahhh fuck

> Triple mf D's man on a petite girl
@SavageMedic damm

Like I ain't wanna give anyone the power to fuck up my life like that

And she would do it just for fun

Has your desire lessened over time?

Not really