Message from @Chaveca

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2018-12-20 15:08:07 UTC  

Believe me i would have beat me too me and my sister were animals

2018-12-20 15:08:29 UTC  

@coattailsandbowties their roof their rules man

2018-12-20 15:09:04 UTC  

it's probably easier to see the problem if you think about how it applies to families other than your own

2018-12-20 15:09:18 UTC  

make a checklist of things they do and view it outside your own experiences

2018-12-20 15:09:24 UTC  

Well its not other families

2018-12-20 15:09:26 UTC  

"hello family its nice to see you again now leave me alone to study the entropics of self assembling nanostructures"

2018-12-20 15:09:34 UTC  

"im from cancer-shitposting"

2018-12-20 15:09:36 UTC  

great start

2018-12-20 15:09:39 UTC  

Most south Africans have the same exact stories as i do

2018-12-20 15:09:48 UTC  

then fuck your culture

2018-12-20 15:09:50 UTC  

and fuck islam

2018-12-20 15:09:53 UTC  

sounds about the same

2018-12-20 15:10:14 UTC  

Its not even close

2018-12-20 15:10:15 UTC  

@tequila I mean there's a difference between not abusing their trust, with things like drugs, which I fully understand, and threatening you over an entirely personal matter

2018-12-20 15:10:28 UTC  

do they say "it gets better when you marry/leave" or anything like?

2018-12-20 15:10:36 UTC  

What?

2018-12-20 15:10:45 UTC  

I dunno they let me stay here because im broke

2018-12-20 15:10:54 UTC  

Doesnt sound like abuse to me

2018-12-20 15:10:57 UTC  

no I mean other south africans who have the same stories

2018-12-20 15:11:22 UTC  

With my mum "my house my rules" means "if you cook for yourself wash up, but if it's for the family you can delegate. No drugs. No sex in the kitchen" kind of thing

2018-12-20 15:11:40 UTC  

well

2018-12-20 15:11:43 UTC  

its her kitchen

2018-12-20 15:11:48 UTC  

We mostly laugh and bond over the things we get smacked for

2018-12-20 15:11:58 UTC  

that's how cults indoctrinate also

2018-12-20 15:12:01 UTC  

Not "if you have sex with anyone before marriage i will beat the living daylights out of you"

2018-12-20 15:12:01 UTC  

like the dank brigade

2018-12-20 15:12:06 UTC  

And how australians dont understand

2018-12-20 15:12:16 UTC  

scuse me

2018-12-20 15:12:17 UTC  

@coattailsandbowties lets be fair thats when i was little

2018-12-20 15:12:28 UTC  

She didnt hit me when she found out she just got sad

2018-12-20 15:12:33 UTC  

oh well its just old mindset

2018-12-20 15:12:57 UTC  

@tequila do you love Australia?

2018-12-20 15:13:00 UTC  

are you a patriot?

2018-12-20 15:13:10 UTC  

Last time i got hit with the old hickory stick i was like 16

2018-12-20 15:13:13 UTC  

No 17

2018-12-20 15:13:23 UTC  

Sad in what manner? Sad like "my girl's not my little baby anymore"? Or sad like "why couldnt you do what I wanted, I'm so disappointed"?

2018-12-20 15:13:32 UTC  

i remember the last time me mum tried to use the wooden spoon

2018-12-20 15:13:35 UTC  

shes so little

2018-12-20 15:13:39 UTC  

I mean i guess? I want to join the army so i can pay the country back for gove opportunity

2018-12-20 15:13:44 UTC  

South africa is my home though

2018-12-20 15:13:45 UTC  

try to see our understanding of it