Message from @moira
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Because it'll make it stronger.
*it*
You're confusing epistomology with emotions. They can know that what they did was wrong, without feeling an "emotional" connection with it
how is a stoic going to help him deal
What did you ask?
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@Sentient23 That’s off topic from the original discussion
Well, through facing the pain.
Wow
Very helpful to an undeveloped teen going through his first heavy emotional blow
Dear, you either face the pain or let the pain consume you.
Not really
The way the teen will face the pain is irrelevant to the current topic, but I must ask, what do you suggest the parent does?
you can face the pain while still displaying it
Displaying it is not necessary.
and release of emotion also helps
Yeah okay, these are ways to face the pain, but again you're assuming that stoicism is about bottling up the pain.
Why did he date her anyway. Wait until marriage, and let me as the father pick which Aryan it's going to be
But if you want to talk about the displaying of emotions, I'll let you know that not showing your feelings, builds you a stronger image. And with a stronger image, you become more confident.
He dated her because he liked her and thought she was a good fit for him
Displaying it can hold you back from facing it.
How is this different from bottling it up
Not displaying it can actually help some people. It depends on the individual, however.
You’re less likely to overcome pain if you face it by yourself
Stoicism doesn't require facing the pain by yourself.
Especially when it is involved in parenting, as I mentioned earlier.
But that what i said
How do you expect to face pain with someone else if you don’t show it
Showing it is not a necessity for facing pain lol
What's the inference point there?
Its not
> You’re less likely to overcome pain if you face it by yourself
@moira
You said it was
> How do you expect to face pain with someone else if you don’t show it
Individualism is not required in Stoicism.
Because > Stoicism doesn't require facing the pain by yourself.
What you found in Google isn't a correct or complete definition.
Not all definitions in Google are correct.