Message from @InsaneCaterpilla
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Does NCFM have a phone line or something?
There are at least some emails https://ncfm.org/lead-with-us/chapters/
But NCFM seems slightly more related to discrimination stuff
Rather than specifically divorce and fathers stuff
So I'm trying to find a better source
But I know Crouch and co did do stuff with this once upon a time
Oof, searching for the NCFM is a pain in the ass, apparently it stands for some kind of exam too
Im gonna consult with lawyers in the meantime, she is coming on Friday. I have a bug out bag to go. I'll get a recorder tomorrow. I just wish my employer didn't let me go tho. It would have made this process much easier.
:< I'm sorry mate, sympathise with you. People shouldn't have the ability to change someone else's life in such dramatic ways so easily
Yeah, I gotta wait until next year mid Jan, when hiring picks up.
If it wasn't for the security clearance stuff and the maybe baby I think this'd be pretty simple to give advice, but as it is I think there are some pretty careful lines to go about dealing with both, the latter of which may be SC specific.
And concerning the pregnancy it'd be really nice to hear specifically from an MRM guy as to what to do to prepare.
MRM?
Men's Rights Movement
Mens rights movement
Any of them on or to call?
Sorry that wasn't really for me to answer
np Caterpilla. I'm trying to find a specific person who deals in stuff like this, but my knowledge of the MRM isn't quite broad enough
At very least the NCFM people would know who to call
but might be a bit annoyed if I missed something easy to google
The MRM is made up of many communities
yeah.
After this shitshow, I need to be more red pill awared
She had a leash on me the entire time; I couldn't figure out how to get out until she went back home temporarily
Sounds like you're a victim of domestic abuse :<
I was a Beta
transitioning to alpha atm since I lost everything.
Oof, I don't associate much with terms such as alpha or beta. Not my thing. Everyone's different and everyone likes different things in people is the way I see it.
ok. I think I used the wrong words.
But if it makes you feel better to be a certain way then more power to you
I was blue pill before.
@InsaneCaterpilla Nah, I appreciate it. I need to be focused right now.
But, its true. The situation is overly complicated. A lot of context is left out.
I just mean, there's nothing wrong with if you see it as self improvement. That's always a worthy goal to adhere to, to better yourself, and if you feel you have then it's something to be proud of
I posted this a while back. https://tinyurl.com/ycl38zhc
@InsaneCaterpilla I appreciate it. I lost a lot of opportunity because of this relationship
a lot of money too
Okeydoke, so my advice in the absence of me or Caterpilla having anyone to contact is to contact the NCFM, just to say "hi, I'm planning to separate from a bad relationship, I'm in South Carolina, she's vindicative, there's a possible pregnancy, and I really want to keep my security clearance. I'm not sure if you are the right people to contact, but who should I be talking to in order to get basic advice of what to do about these things, other than a lawyer?". Using the resources from https://ncfm.org/lead-with-us/chapters/. It seems the contact points would be 888-223-1280 or [email protected].
but you mostly have good advice already
It may be considered evil to a lot of people, but I'm a firm believer in a universal living wage, that simply living your life shouldn't mean you have to work, not on a base level