It's gonna be hard to hear but unless you have a court order which already dictates visitation you need to speak to a lawyer to get one ASAP, which is gonna mean spending money

So I’m just fucked until I can afford a lawyer?

You can look into some forms of legal aid, being a disabled vet may give you some advantages there

Any idea what the cheapest route be?

https://www.lawhelp.org/veterans

Not specifically no, but we do have some sites listed. I'm not the one specifically to ask about finding the best lawyer though, I haven't done it myself

Lucky lol this shits brutal

Yea I've heard stories and it all seems so tough :< I'm hoping being in a different state won't be held against you by the courts, I think that depends who moved out of state

I did. I don’t want full custody or anything like that just the basic visitation schedule would make me a very happy guy

Of course.. If you can get a free consultation then they can explain the process and things and how much things are likely to cost, that would be the first step. Try not to think of it as a massive thing and just do one thing at a time so you get to see your child, it's easy to get depressed and such if it feels like too much

Thanks for the encouragement. You’re right having to fight to see your kids is really exhausting, but I suppose it is the only option with my ex refusing. The worst part of it all is my kiddo getting caught in the middle

Yea, it sucks for both of you, but you're doing what you can to see them and that's important, making sure you stay a part of his life no matter who tries to stop you

Thanks again. At least now I know what the first step is.

No worries man, hopefully you'll come back and update us after that on how things are going :)

And if you need to vent and stuff, we can be good for that too ^^

I do my best not to vent about this lol. Too much angst

Well so'k if you do, everyone has different ways of coping with stuff

I'm afraid to get married due to divorce

It does suck, and a lot of things about that should be changed. If you can have a meaningful long term relationship without marriage that might be best, but if not then try not to let risks prevent you enjoying your life to the fullest

Yeah I dumbly got married at 20 right after joining the military. Wrong call.

@thorney112 Good luck , no one care about the military trust me i played that card

People like to think of the military as strong. Not needing any help.

no they see as money

i even went to the court house in ocp and the judge didnt care

@Indigo Where did you get that image? I'd like to cite it and credit the author

There are quite a few links that may help in <#523457566307516446> by the way @thorney112

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question during my divorce my wife have filed mult injunction file but she have lied in all of them . https://www.lawserver.com/law/state/florida/statutes/florida_statutes_837-02 tell me she can be punished , do you guys have a course of action i should be taking to bring these charges to light

What were the injunctions for?

And can you prove that what she said were lies (and she knew they were lies) that effected the course and outcome of proceedings?

Judges tend not to be fond of people they know lied, and normally that casts a pall on all the liar's testimony. So chances are when you file a rebuttal you'll get ample oppurtunity to demonstrate that and that will be quite good for you. However, as for punished beyond dimming the family court judge's opinion of her trustworthiness, probably not. Perjury is not an often used law, much to my chagrin. And of course, IANAL, always listen to your lawyer.

https://www.hg.org/legal-articles/what-can-you-do-when-someone-commits-perjury-30944

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Unfortunately, the harsh reality is that perjury is very rarely charged against anyone who testifies unless the offense is egregious. The reason? It is exceptionally difficult to show that someone intentionally lied about something unless their lie is so far afield that it is plain that person is attempting to mislead the trier of fact.
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Unfortunately, one of the most common places you might experience perjury is during family law proceedings.
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so police report say one story

the injuntion say another story

Yea, that's why I asked if it if they can prove it.. it really sucks but it's hard to prove the lie, and prove intent and knowledge of the lie at the time

i can prove it

the court date was pushed

Can you prove she lied deliberately and that the intent of her lie was to somehow pervert the course of justice?

Because that's harder than just the lie