Yeah me too pretty much

Fun~

Eh finals at my school are really overstressed it's bad

Bleh

Ikr

I’m just ready to finish this year. I hate this college

Lol I hate my highschool rn tbh

I’m sorry to hear all this, one question I would have is if you have any evidence that she was asking your and guilting you into this shit? Because if you have it as texts or messages you should hold onto it for evidence

I can probably produce evidence that it was consensual.

Not much else

Anyway, I’m glad therapy is working for you and you are getting better, laying off the crazy certainly helps a little too I’d imagine, I wish you the best that it passes over without too much trouble, but just warning you to be ready in case things take a turn

I am honestly really worried right now

The thing is she isn't mentally stable but doesn't accept any help.

She has apparantly said that I raped her but the thing is nobody believes her I'm just worried that someone will and everything is going to go down hill fast

Hey, you don’t need to worry about her

It’s over, especially if you have proof that everything was consensual

Don’t let someone guilt you into doing something you don’t want to

Indeed, lesson learned

aiyaiai.

Fr tho

Sadly it’s hard because you can’t predict the future on these things, just try and get any evidence ready (texts, messages, etc) and surround yourself with people you know will have your back, friends and family, and if people already don’t believe her because she is that obviously nuts, you have a lot of eyewitness on your side too

I will thank you

https://outdoors.stackexchange.com/questions/16405/how-to-safely-rescue-someone-drowning-as-an-untrained-bystander

Similar principles apply

Cool thanks

Basically, panicky/crazy people are dangerous, you prioritize your own safety to to make sure you don't just add to the victim count, so use arms-length help if at all possible. If the situation is really bad, you wait for them to drown more and then they become easier to help

And generally, trying to save someone super-malicious unless you've got the sort of backup that comes with doing so professionally, is a bad idea.

@jimmyjohnsandwitch That's pretty bad. Sounds like an emotional abuser. If it hasn't been said - try and get hold of that screenshot and back it up, if you can. Keep your texts too, and back them up if you can. Just to be safe.

Please do keep us updated, and document everything you can.

i guess il talk about this here: Around when i was in 6th grade my parents relationship started having troubles my mother suspected my dad of cheating on her becouse he would mostly go out at nigths and not come back for a few days about a few weeks later i heard that my dad actually tried to uh run away from my mom and me you know as a 6th grader i cried my balls off and after my mom did send images of me crying to my dad a day later he decided to come back but it turns out he was cheating on my mom with another teacher at a school he works at my mom actually collapsed after work one morning from what i can assume was the stress we had a car we had a great house and it all faded slowly away it was never brougth up on who i wanted to stay with but i wouldve choose my mom eitherway

after awhile things seemed to stablize for me and my mom but it kinda got worse for my dad

we still kept in contact but the woman he liked literally drained him dry:she made him buy a big ass house he couldnt really pay for becouse they were both teachers made him buy a dog that he still cares for to this day made him buy like 3k of gym equipment to actually start a prvt gym thing in his house in order to pay those off my dad sold his motorbike i thougth it was all good but turns out she made him buy like 10k OF FUCKING FURNITURE that hes still in debt for to this day

so he left her but not before going into huge amounts of debt and moving 4 times in 2 years

at the last house she made him adopt a cat and when they broke up she just left the fucking cat turns out she was a fucking pschyo becouse she would leave litlle pills in the cats food to make it fatter becouse it would be "cuter"

due to money troubles me and my mom had to move houses twice and i had to leave the great privt school i was going to i assume things are stablizing now but they dont talk to me that much about the financial situation all i know is that my mom takes alot of money from my grandparents and has alot of debt owed to them

im in highschool now and i still talk to my dad alot since his house is kinda close