Message from @Abbysol
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Yeah me too pretty much
Fun~
Eh finals at my school are really overstressed it's bad
Bleh
Ikr
I’m just ready to finish this year. I hate this college
Lol I hate my highschool rn tbh
I’m sorry to hear all this, one question I would have is if you have any evidence that she was asking your and guilting you into this shit? Because if you have it as texts or messages you should hold onto it for evidence
I can probably produce evidence that it was consensual.
Not much else
Anyway, I’m glad therapy is working for you and you are getting better, laying off the crazy certainly helps a little too I’d imagine, I wish you the best that it passes over without too much trouble, but just warning you to be ready in case things take a turn
I am honestly really worried right now
The thing is she isn't mentally stable but doesn't accept any help.
She has apparantly said that I raped her but the thing is nobody believes her I'm just worried that someone will and everything is going to go down hill fast
Hey, you don’t need to worry about her
It’s over, especially if you have proof that everything was consensual
Don’t let someone guilt you into doing something you don’t want to
Indeed, lesson learned
aiyaiai.
Fr tho
Sadly it’s hard because you can’t predict the future on these things, just try and get any evidence ready (texts, messages, etc) and surround yourself with people you know will have your back, friends and family, and if people already don’t believe her because she is that obviously nuts, you have a lot of eyewitness on your side too
I will thank you
Similar principles apply
Cool thanks
Basically, panicky/crazy people are dangerous, you prioritize your own safety to to make sure you don't just add to the victim count, so use arms-length help if at all possible. If the situation is really bad, you wait for them to drown more and then they become easier to help
And generally, trying to save someone super-malicious unless you've got the sort of backup that comes with doing so professionally, is a bad idea.
@jimmyjohnsandwitch That's pretty bad. Sounds like an emotional abuser. If it hasn't been said - try and get hold of that screenshot and back it up, if you can. Keep your texts too, and back them up if you can. Just to be safe.
Please do keep us updated, and document everything you can.
i guess il talk about this here: Around when i was in 6th grade my parents relationship started having troubles my mother suspected my dad of cheating on her becouse he would mostly go out at nigths and not come back for a few days about a few weeks later i heard that my dad actually tried to uh run away from my mom and me you know as a 6th grader i cried my balls off and after my mom did send images of me crying to my dad a day later he decided to come back but it turns out he was cheating on my mom with another teacher at a school he works at my mom actually collapsed after work one morning from what i can assume was the stress we had a car we had a great house and it all faded slowly away it was never brougth up on who i wanted to stay with but i wouldve choose my mom eitherway
after awhile things seemed to stablize for me and my mom but it kinda got worse for my dad