Message from @TyDye
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Like, I couldn't even really talk to girls outside of a platonic context until this year, although I tried at some points, and failed, because I thought that this girl I dated was the norm, and that I should basically not try to say or do anything that I thought might make them uncomfortable, lest I get hit lightly, or insulted, or shamed. I was also always afraid that I'd just get used or strung along or something, or that women would hurt me once I opened myself up to them. I'm pleased to say that I'm finally starting to be more comfortable talking emotionally with women, and flirting, and saying that I want something from them. I'm especially starting to be more comfortable with my sexuality and wanting sex with women I'm attracted to despite her trying to make me feel bad for wanting it. So yeah, despite this whole shadow hanging over me for a large chunk of my youth, I'm finally recovering. Take that, bitch
P.S. Found out after the fact that she is a very serious and devout feminist. Not sure all of them are that bad, but I personally will never date a feminist after what I experienced. I just can't open myself up to that possibility again
It's good that you're starting to do better mate, there's no shame in wanting sex, most people do :3
sex is great, just remember the old saying though "don't stick dick in crazy", I'm sorry, but you do deserve better, no one should have to put up with that kind of shit.
I'm really glad you got out of that, and I hope you don't have any more problems. If you would like, I can put your story on www.menarehuman.com for awareness about toxic relationships. Would you be comfortable with that?
I'd just like to keep this here. I don't want to make some big public proclamation about what happened
I just wanted to get it out there
That's absolutely fine. It can be anonymous, but I won't push you to do anything you don't want. I really do hope you have better luck with it. It's not easy, but you know the warning signs now, at least.
Sorry for the double post btw, I don't know exactly how that happened, but it should be gone now.
@InsaneCaterpilla can i tell you one of the things im panicing about
if you have time?
Sure ok
so im 15 and at school a girl keeps doing stuff thats.... interesting and its worrying me.......
so shes fairly new to the school
she brags about how she beats kids and hits em
she hasnt touched me though
anyhoo, over this week she has been saying she will beat me when im walking home
You walk on the same route back together? Is that all she says or do you generally talk about stuff on the way back?
she says it during the school day and..
she said "ill have sex with you and ill make it hurt like hell you ugly fuck"
she says thats she can
(shes much stronger then me)
so thats weird
she said that twice but never did it
err..... im just confused
Mmm
its been worrying me as i allready have autism, ADHD and anxiety -_-
Well, first if you want advice mate, the first thing I would do is talk to her seriously and make it clear to her that if she wants to be your friend then it's not right to threaten you and stuff, and if she keeps doing it you're gonna stop hanging anywhere around her
If that doesn't work, she keeps doing it and coming up to you and harassing you, you should definitely tell a teacher about it
i didnt say shes my friend and its not my choice to be by her as we have assigned seats
however we get new seats soon
Yea I get that mate, its just possible that's the way she's trying to act. Seems like she's 'not quite all there'
idk what that means
*puts finger to the side of his head and spins it in a circle*
oh
There's no doubt that if you, as a guy, were to do something like that to a girl it would be a major issue, which is unfair
yesterday she kept talking about killing herself and I didnt want to talk so all i said was "people care about you" and if she has told a adult. them she gets a additude asking why im being "nice guy"
today she was talking at me about getting scammed out of $1000 and how much shes pissed but i didnt say anything
i over heared her talking to other people about her death yesterday one of the boys gave ideas
Mmm... I can understand maybe if you're worried about someone you know, even if they're not particularly a friend, but given how she acts I wouldn't try and reassure/help her or anything... Not even to say people care about her. She sounds like the type of person it is safer not to associate with