Message from @HomoMan

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2019-02-17 17:14:22 UTC  

Stupid woman

2019-02-17 17:40:42 UTC  

We need to teach women to not be heightist

2019-02-17 18:04:26 UTC  

We can't Bobby, just like the fat Acceptance movement.. It won't work

2019-02-17 18:50:21 UTC  

i mean, i dont thinkyou can dictate attraction. if someone prefers a certain height or weight, thats just them.

2019-02-17 18:50:46 UTC  

but it shouldnt be acceptable to publicly ock someone for it, height is something you cant control at all]]

2019-02-17 18:50:51 UTC  

weight can be controled to a degree

2019-02-17 18:50:53 UTC  

height cannot

2019-02-17 18:51:09 UTC  

Or a small penis for that matter

2019-02-17 18:54:12 UTC  

I mean, beauty standards mostly come from culture anyway. There's no reason we can't change them. The idea that attraction is some purely biological thing is... not really founded in any science.

2019-02-17 18:54:27 UTC  

So yes, shame people for having unrealistic standards, IMO

2019-02-17 18:55:08 UTC  

Well if someone has unrealistic standards, he/she probably wont find a partner or he/she will have to settle

2019-02-17 18:55:16 UTC  

So I dont see why its a problem tbh

2019-02-17 18:56:20 UTC  

Yeah, but it seems like people are more upset about unnecessary bullying? Small penis jokes, fat jokes, jokes about height.

2019-02-17 18:56:29 UTC  

It's more than just attraction for dating or sex.

2019-02-17 18:57:26 UTC  

Well I guess two things can be true at once
- you can have unrealistic beauty standards
- you dont have to be rude and shame people for their appearance

2019-02-17 18:57:57 UTC  

Yeah, that pretty much sums it up.

2019-02-17 18:58:16 UTC  

I mean I dont have a problem with fat acceptance if it was meant to combat bullying

2019-02-17 18:59:08 UTC  

But the idea that we should view fat people as attractive and we are fatphobic? (not sure if its the right word) if we dont is just ridiculous

2019-02-17 18:59:58 UTC  

Yeah, that exists. It's ridiculous.

2019-02-17 19:01:06 UTC  

Also there is a double standard to fat acceptance as well. Hell, even fat women usually say they wouldnt date fat men (while shame men that wont date fat women) which is just pure hypocricy

2019-02-17 19:01:28 UTC  

Yeah, actually I had that same thought recently. Have any of you seen the movie Dumplin'?

2019-02-17 19:01:35 UTC  

You can lose weight you can't gain height

2019-02-17 19:01:37 UTC  

I havent

2019-02-17 19:01:56 UTC  

So without spoiling anything let's just say the movie is basically a fat acceptance movie.

2019-02-17 19:01:58 UTC  

Thats also true @Bobby_Hill

2019-02-17 19:02:15 UTC  

and the fat girl gets this hot buff guy

2019-02-17 19:02:26 UTC  

which, IDK, just felt like fat woman wish fulfillment to me

2019-02-17 19:02:46 UTC  

Yeah, sounds about right

2019-02-17 19:03:40 UTC  

I mean, just watch video clips of fat acceptance ads. They almost always have fat women and hot buff guys

2019-02-17 19:03:57 UTC  

hahaha, yeah. That is true

2019-02-17 19:04:04 UTC  

Not to mention the lack of fat male models

2019-02-17 19:04:14 UTC  

Never heard about one tbh

2019-02-17 19:04:26 UTC  

My friend likes to hateshare Tess Holliday posts on Instagram

2019-02-17 19:04:36 UTC  

I will say her BF isn't really hot or buff

2019-02-17 19:05:22 UTC  

Height isn't a preference for women anymore its a req

2019-02-17 19:05:27 UTC  

Requirement

2019-02-17 19:05:34 UTC  

but I guess that's the difference in what is actually attainable if you're fat compared with what you might fantasize about.

2019-02-17 19:05:50 UTC  

Yeah for sure

2019-02-17 19:06:14 UTC  

I mean at the end of the day, you cant shame people for their taste

2019-02-17 19:06:30 UTC  

Just dont be rude about it

2019-02-17 19:07:20 UTC  

IDK, is height really that big a thing? I mean I know it is for some women but..... it doesn't seem like all or most women are that obsessed with height. I mean, just basing this off being a gay man with female friends.