xD

*completely not being helpful, goes back to his workout*

I'm trying hard to limit alchohol

It's been once a week for about 3 months now

I'm feeling good

Me too, I very rarely imbibe now. I did use to be a pretty heavy drinker

@Abbysol @Maxwell_Richardson @blueorange22 Thanks for handling the questions from that guy there with dignity and without anger, by the way.

19-21 years of age were the worst.

I lived kind of a hippie life

I regret that tbh

Yeah, @Men Are Human I just kinda do whatever sounds right and try not to overthink it. It’s more from physical problems and life situations than anything.

I’m too young to be having physical problems tbh so that doesn’t help. I don’t want to make it heavy though, just kinda letting you know what was up :p

When I was that young I wasn't that bad, only used to drink with my ex then really. Got bad with depression a few years after that when it was my only outlet and I didn't care if I died from alcohol poisoning or whatever

Not making fun of anything here, but I do feel every individual has severe depression issues once in his/her lifetime at least. Even I had a breakdown

Canada has banned proof of consent

Yeah I don’t doubt it. I’m sure the amount of people who haven’t gone through something quite difficult is very low

So if you’re accused of rape

And have proof it was with consent

Tough luck

a written legal document should be adopted for casual sex imo.

It's too easy to get framed.

Yeah it can be pretty scary tbh

@Linguini Sounds like a good plan.

@dabezt I can't even tell if you are joking at this point. Sigh

I’m not

Yeah, I had a hunch

https://youtu.be/9Clyd70qkuU

It's completely pointless to have a consent document. Consent can and should be able to be withdrawn during intercourse for different acts

And it's unrealistic to go through a consent document and things still to feel sexy

Lol that's right as well.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

@InsaneCaterpilla It is, but at this point it seems like we need to stop letting them ban stuff like this

But then there is no other way to proof consent, is it?

Unless you are wearing a cam all day long

I mean, the document I'm envisioning would have a place to sign afterwards too

Also: on video

To be hones - you guys are right - probably wouldn't work in theory

*in practice

It's a he said she said thing yes. I'm not against recording sexual relations tbh, but as long as we can make sure the law stays innocent until proven guilty, and get rid of ridiculous campus kangaroo courts than assume you are guilty under a preponderance of evidence standard, there is no need for any consent document

Oh, btw, we should really be having this conversation in <#523922218200203265>

Morally weak values lead to all of this. We can't tame people to be morally equipped but sure we can provide them with that sort of education early on.