Message from @Vhiskey

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2018-12-17 07:19:15 UTC  

I regret that tbh

2018-12-17 07:19:15 UTC  

Yeah, @Men Are Human I just kinda do whatever sounds right and try not to overthink it. It’s more from physical problems and life situations than anything.

2018-12-17 07:20:32 UTC  

I’m too young to be having physical problems tbh so that doesn’t help. I don’t want to make it heavy though, just kinda letting you know what was up :p

2018-12-17 07:21:16 UTC  

When I was that young I wasn't that bad, only used to drink with my ex then really. Got bad with depression a few years after that when it was my only outlet and I didn't care if I died from alcohol poisoning or whatever

2018-12-17 07:22:07 UTC  

Not making fun of anything here, but I do feel every individual has severe depression issues once in his/her lifetime at least. Even I had a breakdown

2018-12-17 07:22:33 UTC  

Canada has banned proof of consent

2018-12-17 07:22:52 UTC  

Yeah I don’t doubt it. I’m sure the amount of people who haven’t gone through something quite difficult is very low

2018-12-17 07:22:58 UTC  

So if you’re accused of rape

2018-12-17 07:23:04 UTC  

And have proof it was with consent

2018-12-17 07:23:07 UTC  

Tough luck

2018-12-17 07:23:43 UTC  

a written legal document should be adopted for casual sex imo.

2018-12-17 07:23:53 UTC  

It's too easy to get framed.

2018-12-17 07:24:22 UTC  

Yeah it can be pretty scary tbh

2018-12-17 07:24:47 UTC  

@Linguini Sounds like a good plan.

2018-12-17 07:25:04 UTC  

@dabezt I can't even tell if you are joking at this point. Sigh

2018-12-17 07:25:11 UTC  

I’m not

2018-12-17 07:25:17 UTC  

Yeah, I had a hunch

2018-12-17 07:25:23 UTC  
2018-12-17 07:25:34 UTC  

It's completely pointless to have a consent document. Consent can and should be able to be withdrawn during intercourse for different acts

2018-12-17 07:25:54 UTC  

And it's unrealistic to go through a consent document and things still to feel sexy

2018-12-17 07:26:07 UTC  

Lol that's right as well.

2018-12-17 07:26:13 UTC  

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

2018-12-17 07:26:36 UTC  

@InsaneCaterpilla It is, but at this point it seems like we need to stop letting them ban stuff like this

2018-12-17 07:26:42 UTC  

But then there is no other way to proof consent, is it?

2018-12-17 07:26:54 UTC  

Unless you are wearing a cam all day long

2018-12-17 07:27:03 UTC  

I mean, the document I'm envisioning would have a place to sign afterwards too

2018-12-17 07:27:10 UTC  

Also: on video

2018-12-17 07:27:33 UTC  

To be hones - you guys are right - probably wouldn't work in theory

2018-12-17 07:27:41 UTC  

*in practice

2018-12-17 07:28:10 UTC  

It's a he said she said thing yes. I'm not against recording sexual relations tbh, but as long as we can make sure the law stays innocent until proven guilty, and get rid of ridiculous campus kangaroo courts than assume you are guilty under a preponderance of evidence standard, there is no need for any consent document

2018-12-17 07:28:20 UTC  

Oh, btw, we should really be having this conversation in <#523922218200203265>

2018-12-17 07:28:26 UTC  

Morally weak values lead to all of this. We can't tame people to be morally equipped but sure we can provide them with that sort of education early on.

2018-12-17 07:28:55 UTC  

@Vhiskey @InsaneCaterpilla That's a fair point, both of you.

2018-12-17 07:34:26 UTC  

I don't know about you guys but females in general crave attention. I'm guilty to that myself. And that's why we see so many false accusations being made during the me too movement. It's like an instant ticket to spotlight. Although morally correct females don't do that.

2018-12-17 07:34:49 UTC  

I would like to think I wouldn’t do that xD

2018-12-17 07:35:04 UTC  

But I will agree, I can be a proper attention ho sometimes

2018-12-17 07:35:16 UTC  

Also hai

2018-12-17 07:35:41 UTC  

Hai?

2018-12-17 07:35:48 UTC  

You mean hi?

2018-12-17 07:36:09 UTC  

Yeah, is a silly way to pronounce/spell it

2018-12-17 07:36:27 UTC  

Don’t think too much about it, just more memes