They start to go away with higher pain tollerance

Ah?

No they don't.

I can handle most sorts of pains ranging from physical to emotional, all it takes is for specific bad experiences for someone to manifest any issue they may not be comfortable with.

Everyone working in the kitchen is either a goth or a punk, asides from lazy coworker

Lazy is bas

Bad

I am more or less glad I can say with confidence there are one or two persons I trust.

Trust is something that always should be earned, but at some point you have to take a risk here and there.

Personally feel like I'm starting to become a bit more open with people. Not open to where I'll tell anybody anything but enough to give people a sense of what I'm like

Still need to experiment more on social skills tho

It depends a lot on how much work you put into you

Probably will if my car gets back up and running

if you put a lot in: you'll be comfortable enough defending yourself that it won't matter what others think

Here's hoping

Still surprised i was able to hold a convo while getting my hair cut a while ago

Guess I'm learning

i still have no idea how to do small talk

Small talk bores me.

Try finding a common topic

i usually wait for the other person to start the ball rolling and just ramble absent mindedly on auo pilo through most of those conversations

But I rarely get to do anything aside from small talk.

otherwise i'm likely to diverage into some heavier shit and they're more than likely not going to have a good ime with that

time*

Usually a simple, hows you're day been gets it going

Listen to what theyre saying and try ti see if a convo can start from there

pretty much

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keyboard fuck

Kek

*To help me keep my mind clear when it comes to small talk, I like to imagine there's like.. elevator music playing in the background

having your focus split on something helps

kinda why I liked washing dishes when I did that. always had something menial to focus on.

I don't know if it's just me, but I feel like I notice or see too much into someone when I look at them. I'm pretty good at reading people, and most of the time i just don't want all of that in my head.

Noticed i try to find something of common ground or intrest. Just enough to sorta get a view on a persons personality

have to be comfortable with someone to turn that off

Like the two girls i talked to at cvs one time or another girl at walmart

Girl from walm came across as energetic, one brunette at cvs gave off a mature vibe, while a blonde from cvs gave off kinda a tired vibe

And it's all from how things were going at work too

Picking up on queues like that is good, means youre not an aspie so thats a good sign. I can still be awkward sometimes so if I don't have anything to say with small talk I just ask the other person a question thats relevant, or tey to break the ice by making them laugh