Message from @SheepTeeth
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I'm not worried about my 18 year old coworker, I'm worried about a janitor who has been intentionally making me uncomfortable
I was just basing that from my experience from working at a bar @KomradeKaufman
A trap tried to rape me when I left for the night **twice**
Sean, my crush, is a felon but I feel much more comfortable around him because he's never intentionally cornered me or said/did anything to creep me out. I had to initiate that I'm attracted to him before he started flirting and joking with me
oof
Aww, cute
Good luck sheep
did you report the janitor situation to your boss?
Yup
And both of my supervisors
Line cooks now know that they need to kick him out of the kitchen if they see him, and security is aware as well
I still like my army method for sleep, y'all are neurotic
...I tried it and it was not effective
only thing that's worked for me is a sudoku book (no phone).
get the hardest one you can find
basically stare at a number grid until you pass out
Haha, I've got textbooks for mental exersise.
trying to bore the shit out of your brain
you want it to be something that's pretty hard to make any progress on
Idk if you've used ambient or white noise, but sounds of rain usually help me get to sleep
Yeah, i've tried that and on every occasion, it does not help.
Fuck I wish I wasn’t so socially awkward. Even though I have a gf and love her so much that she means the world to me I can’t initiate contact. I wish I was a chad so bad
Lord
Wat
You should feel comfortable saying shit to your GF. Maybe you should do it more often so you're more comfortable, unless she's exhibiting a behaivor that discourages you initating contact.
things only get easier once you give yourself permission
that works for both good and bad things
Yeah
IDK about you guys, but I absolutely will not sleep with someone unless I feel comfortable enough to say whatever is on my mind
same, it's a trust thing for me
If I'm not comfortable enough to fart around them, I'm not letting them stick it in me lmfao
It’s not that I don’t trust her or that she acts like she wouldn’t like it. Frankly, I can’t really tell why I’m so retarded about this. I just still love her so much but I can’t say/ do some of the things I wish I would were I not so awkward
She pretty much always initiates intimate contact and stuff like that. I’m a really socially awkward and because of that she likes to fluster me literally whenever possible
Hmm, that seems to be part of a similar issue with Sean, he thinks I'm like a small innocent child and tells me not to curse because "it hurts my ears!"; to be fair though I've given him that impression because of my sweet girl work persona as well as crying a couple times at work
Just tell her that you want more but are too awkward to ask
And then from there you can talk about it
Ok
Communication is really important
She'll appreciate you mentioning it without.. you know, bluntly demanding it or taking it
Okay