Nobody is gonna call me a boy and get away with it in person
Thats just a matter of respect
When someone ask me, "When are you getting married, frugal?" I just tell them when I find the right one. They usually have nothing to say after that and I get to go on peacefully.
that is why they will continue to control your need for validation
@Kaiser Dion Napoleon Don't go chasing respect. It's never worth your time
lol The right one
because you let them
That shit doesn't exist
see i dont give a fuck
i just tell them no
I dont care about respect, its about self respect
@felldie1496 They don't know the right one means no one but hey, I'm not lying and I end the convo quick
The probability of finding your soulmate is 0
If I dont have self respect what do I have
thats absolutely not what self respect is
thats the literal opposite of self respect
Let someone just refer to you as a boy?
who the fuck cares
People can call me what they want
I know I'm a man
You have no self respect if you allow that
yes i do
they arent worth my time
your letting them control you like a puppet on a string
@Kaiser Dion Napoleon It sounds like you are letting someone else define your own self respect.
Their opinion means literally nothing
your dancing for them
It's worse then dirt
It's not even that big a thing, but that's where I tow the line
then you have not found self validation
This is my self validation
no its their validating you
you let their validation of you control you
There has to be some point where I dont tolerate any further advance
your still letting them control what you say and do
Exactly. Them calling you a man rather than a boy is the validation you call respect
instead of doing what you want and fuck everyone else
your demanding they validate you for nothing.
Normally I wouldn't care, that's not validation to me, but them calling me a boy is a affront to something I honor for myself
you are still placing their validation above your own self respect
You are letting someone else control the honor you feel for yourself
