Because I've worked harder then any of those cunts

I WILL be addressed as a man

yea. so why does their opinion matter

why are you giving them all the power

stop doing that

Nobody is gonna call me a boy and get away with it in person

Thats just a matter of respect

When someone ask me, "When are you getting married, frugal?" I just tell them when I find the right one. They usually have nothing to say after that and I get to go on peacefully.

that is why they will continue to control your need for validation

@Kaiser Dion Napoleon Don't go chasing respect. It's never worth your time

lol The right one

because you let them

That shit doesn't exist

see i dont give a fuck

i just tell them no

I dont care about respect, its about self respect

@felldie1496 They don't know the right one means no one but hey, I'm not lying and I end the convo quick

The probability of finding your soulmate is 0

If I dont have self respect what do I have

thats absolutely not what self respect is

thats the literal opposite of self respect

Let someone just refer to you as a boy?

who the fuck cares

People can call me what they want

I know I'm a man

You have no self respect if you allow that

yes i do

they arent worth my time

your letting them control you like a puppet on a string

@Kaiser Dion Napoleon It sounds like you are letting someone else define your own self respect.

Their opinion means literally nothing

your dancing for them

It's worse then dirt

It's not even that big a thing, but that's where I tow the line

then you have not found self validation

This is my self validation

no its their validating you

you let their validation of you control you

There has to be some point where I dont tolerate any further advance

your still letting them control what you say and do

Exactly. Them calling you a man rather than a boy is the validation you call respect