The probability of finding your soulmate is 0

If I dont have self respect what do I have

thats absolutely not what self respect is

thats the literal opposite of self respect

Let someone just refer to you as a boy?

who the fuck cares

People can call me what they want

I know I'm a man

You have no self respect if you allow that

yes i do

they arent worth my time

your letting them control you like a puppet on a string

@Kaiser Dion Napoleon It sounds like you are letting someone else define your own self respect.

Their opinion means literally nothing

your dancing for them

It's worse then dirt

It's not even that big a thing, but that's where I tow the line

then you have not found self validation

This is my self validation

no its their validating you

you let their validation of you control you

There has to be some point where I dont tolerate any further advance

your still letting them control what you say and do

Exactly. Them calling you a man rather than a boy is the validation you call respect

instead of doing what you want and fuck everyone else

your demanding they validate you for nothing.

Normally I wouldn't care, that's not validation to me, but them calling me a boy is a affront to something I honor for myself

you are still placing their validation above your own self respect

You are letting someone else control the honor you feel for yourself

You guys aren't black, you dont understand lol

i am black

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you're being weak

I'm talking about when black women do it

who the fuck cares about black women

I don't want to tell you how you should live and all that noise, but you have to understand that some women just fucking love irking others like I said before

are you marrying them?

are you trying to smash them?

do you think giving them what they want is something you should do?

you do you, but still think about it

All I'm saying is there has to be some point at which you shouldn't allow people to advance any further