Message from @MufflePuff
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I think that’s just always the way it’s going to be though
Also, that second part about simps is interesting as well... Who are the simps and what makes you sure that they go to school or are interested in their parent's acceptance?
What exactly is sleepwalking through life to you? If a person is living for themselves and not saving the world, then are they in a state of prolonged adolescence?
Also... If you don't know where these beliefs of human responsibility come from, how can you expect others to live by them? You don't know where they came from for yourself?
I guess it’s just immaturity. Women can be excused for their immaturity, they’ll never face any consequences for it. The simps, blue pilled men, herd, slave morality that keep their head down and don’t want to see the truth.
Hm.. and is it hard to understand why these men operate this way? Or why women are excused from their responsibilities? Or are you just at odds with it.
I think both. It’s frustrating seeing all of it in motion
Ok. Well "immaturity" is often painted in a broad brush and often used by people to direct others to do their bidding (adhere to their demands). Immaturity is BS. No one is born to do anything, we as a society have come together under a set of agreed upon rules (laws) and unfortunately these rules have been swayed in the favor of women. Prolonged adolescence is another zinger used to get men back to doing their part with no benefit.
So are you a MGTOW? and what responsibilities do you feel men have to society?
Yeah I can see that. Why put it in all the work and take on responsibility for no reward?
Yeah. To work with their hands, self-actualisation, and find meaning
I think it's important to remember that these dreams and goals that we're told to achieve were given to us by society. Wife, kids, house. That doesn't have anything to do with your birth, life or death.
I guess I fall in line with Sandman’s take on it
So if you believe that men are born to self-actualize and find meaning, why believe in "prolonged adolescence"? Are these immature men not doing those things?
Right, you’re free from society’s burdens and any expectations or demands they put on you. You can go your own way your own way, but I’m not one of the “enjoy the collapse” types
The seeds need to be planted today so trees can eventually grow.
If you dont plant the seeds society will rot
The idea of enjoying the collapse, I think,comes from the realization that we as men have no other choice. Do you believe there is something that can be done about the social state?
Right. I don’t mean jacking off to hentai when I say prelonged adolescence. I mean being 40 years old and doing nothing but sitting in front of the TV to watch football, when you could be sharpening your mind, your body, your willpower
Yes, but not by snapping my fingers. It comes with individuals making choices
What can an individual's choices eventually change about the state of society and why should they put their energy and interest into it?
Not much
Hopefully, it can result in liberation and standing up for ourselves. Choosing to walk away, go our own way, and break free from society’s chains. All of my favorite MGTOW youtubers are just individuals who make choices
Unless you rise to power
Are you as a man not free once you decide you are? Can you not free yourself simply by going your own way?
lol Also, are those guys sitting in front of the TV not more free than those who achieved all those goals previously mentioned?
Those goals that they didn't have until someone gave them to them?
Depends on the definition of freedom. Hedonism, nihilism, and consumerism are all slave masters in some people’s eyes
People will always be subjective with limitations to various definitions. What do you think about my questions personally?
Do you need society to change to be free individually?
They’re good questions, ones worth being asked
lol and answered
No, but it never hurts to find ways to make your life less shitty and a little bit more worth living. I’m kinda fatalistic about society, a lot of things are inevitable and are just the natural course of things, but I’d argue the objective best life would reject society as it is today. If it changes for the better, you don’t *need* to adapt for better or worse
And so it sounds like those "prolonged adolescent" 40 year old men have done just that. Who decides what their life should entail?
They do. So what's wrong with that?
Ultimately, it’s up to them. But answers, concepts, other ways of looking at things, etc. are staring them in the face, and it’s frustrating seeing all of it in motion to keep systems and cycles continuing
Could I also interject a question: are you using “slave morality” as a negative or derogatory term? You also lump hedonism, nihilism, and consumerism together as “slave masters”; how do you mean?
Well, arguably the system has been built on the backs of men who lived in traditional ways. Men who are going their own way ARE changing the system slowly.
Arguably, at this point, "prolonged adolescence" is what's needed to "change the world".
No, just in a Nietzschean sense of it. Good people, nice people, great people, etc. fall into it too. Hedonism, nihilism, and consumerism have you chasing things for fulfillment like cars, sex, anything for the dopamine. Something more like asceticism and examining your life will do you more good and frees you from yourself, if that makes sense. The passions, reason
Prolonged adolescence are traditional ways