Don't forget to have some fun from time to time.

Remember, your departure has to be abrupt.

When you leave, your family should wonder what happened.

You can leave them a note, but if you have a cell phone, you gotta reset it and leave it behind.

The only good thing about buying all my own stuff is that I legally own it which is why I'm entitled to take it with me

Don't weigh yourself down right now.

You need to be ready to vanish.

I COULD vanish if I had a half hour and a small van

I'd say just don't tell them where you're going they don't need to think you were murdered

Leave a note.

"Love you, dad. Little brothers. I'll see you some time. Keep an eye out."

I'm considering telling them that I've moved out but just not telling them where to

In your note, yeah.

But don't tell them to their face. It's a trap.

In a note I agree

Yh, they'll try to get me to stay

But they'll search your contacts.

Your best friend will be their first target.

They know about 3 friends but not their actual names

When they are hunting for you, they will get clever.

My mother will

My mother is on Facebook 24/7

Even so just tell her you will no longer pay her

She'll stop wanting you back

Yh

She will use shame on you hard.

Then she will sabotage your family and friends.

DM them in advance so you prime the field in your favor.

By "in advance," I mean right after you're gone but before your mom hits facebook in investigation mode.

Right now if I'm at home alone I'm expected to complete all the jobs and get dinner ready before she comes back, if I forget to do a single job she'll shame me for the rest of the night

And be vague.

Did u put the ball in tha hoop

That's fine. Write a list for the jobs, get them done.

But my friends know about my mom, that's why my mate offered me to stay with him

The day you decide to vanish, you leave that list on the table, and use that time to vanish.

The only thing you should be leaving behind is the clean spot on the carpet where your shit was.

Literally if I had a small transit van and half an hour to get there I could get set up already at the new house

Be extra clean. Pre-select your bug out kit.

You can rent a van it's not a massive problem

Assuming you can drive

He can't, remember?