You will help them by becoming a stable adult and role model to them.

Great advice

Uhh i put the ball in tha uhh hoop

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I have reckoned that I'm gonna stay in my mates dad's house, he has offered to rent out for £100 a person as it is VERY basic, I'm gonna get set up, grind until I've got enough to make change to my life and better myself while I'm doing it, that is my plan, that is my path

Focus on the grind rather than the females

You need a bed (I have a hammock), a chair, and a table.

Sounds like a solid start

I own the mattress I sleep on

Don't forget to have some fun from time to time.

Remember, your departure has to be abrupt.

When you leave, your family should wonder what happened.

You can leave them a note, but if you have a cell phone, you gotta reset it and leave it behind.

The only good thing about buying all my own stuff is that I legally own it which is why I'm entitled to take it with me

Don't weigh yourself down right now.

You need to be ready to vanish.

I COULD vanish if I had a half hour and a small van

I'd say just don't tell them where you're going they don't need to think you were murdered

Leave a note.

"Love you, dad. Little brothers. I'll see you some time. Keep an eye out."

I'm considering telling them that I've moved out but just not telling them where to

In your note, yeah.

But don't tell them to their face. It's a trap.

In a note I agree

Yh, they'll try to get me to stay

But they'll search your contacts.

Your best friend will be their first target.

They know about 3 friends but not their actual names

When they are hunting for you, they will get clever.

My mother will

My mother is on Facebook 24/7

Even so just tell her you will no longer pay her

She'll stop wanting you back

Yh

She will use shame on you hard.

Then she will sabotage your family and friends.

DM them in advance so you prime the field in your favor.

By "in advance," I mean right after you're gone but before your mom hits facebook in investigation mode.

Right now if I'm at home alone I'm expected to complete all the jobs and get dinner ready before she comes back, if I forget to do a single job she'll shame me for the rest of the night

And be vague.

Did u put the ball in tha hoop