Message from @bornfree2001

Discord ID: 541134351052832768


2019-02-02 05:48:02 UTC  

My situation is that I'm at college, on an apprenticeship I'm looking to move out in 5 months and I cannot stay in a house with my fucking whale of a mother, a cuck of a father, my three younger brothers and my spoiled sister

2019-02-02 05:48:40 UTC  

It sounds like you've been planning to leave for awhile

2019-02-02 05:49:21 UTC  

Yh, would you like to know what my mother does if she doesn't like something?

2019-02-02 05:49:29 UTC  

She throws it in the trash

2019-02-02 05:49:38 UTC  

I suggest looking at your parents as adults that were your caretakers for your youth. Once you are an adult, you can look at them as other adults: would you spend any time with them if they weren't your parents?

2019-02-02 05:49:53 UTC  

No

2019-02-02 05:50:03 UTC  

Time to plan your escape.

2019-02-02 05:50:10 UTC  

👍

2019-02-02 05:50:16 UTC  

Too fucking right

2019-02-02 05:50:32 UTC  

Mind you, don't burn a bridge you don't have to.

2019-02-02 05:50:41 UTC  

Yh

2019-02-02 05:50:49 UTC  

Oh, and when you leave, you need to ninja vanish.

2019-02-02 05:51:00 UTC  

I want to look out for my younger siblings

2019-02-02 05:51:10 UTC  

You will be able to help after you establish yourself.

2019-02-02 05:51:20 UTC  

You can't help someone drowning if you're not stable.

2019-02-02 05:51:46 UTC  

You will help them by becoming a stable adult and role model to them.

2019-02-02 05:53:09 UTC  

Great advice

2019-02-02 05:53:53 UTC  

Uhh i put the ball in tha uhh hoop

2019-02-02 05:53:57 UTC  

😁

2019-02-02 05:54:21 UTC  

I have reckoned that I'm gonna stay in my mates dad's house, he has offered to rent out for £100 a person as it is VERY basic, I'm gonna get set up, grind until I've got enough to make change to my life and better myself while I'm doing it, that is my plan, that is my path

2019-02-02 05:54:43 UTC  

Focus on the grind rather than the females

2019-02-02 05:54:51 UTC  

You need a bed (I have a hammock), a chair, and a table.

2019-02-02 05:54:51 UTC  

Sounds like a solid start

2019-02-02 05:55:30 UTC  

I own the mattress I sleep on

2019-02-02 05:55:33 UTC  

Don't forget to have some fun from time to time.

2019-02-02 05:55:43 UTC  

Remember, your departure has to be abrupt.

2019-02-02 05:55:54 UTC  

When you leave, your family should wonder what happened.

2019-02-02 05:56:39 UTC  

You can leave them a note, but if you have a cell phone, you gotta reset it and leave it behind.

2019-02-02 05:57:16 UTC  

The only good thing about buying all my own stuff is that I legally own it which is why I'm entitled to take it with me

2019-02-02 05:57:27 UTC  

Don't weigh yourself down right now.

2019-02-02 05:57:34 UTC  

You need to be ready to vanish.

2019-02-02 05:58:12 UTC  

I COULD vanish if I had a half hour and a small van

2019-02-02 05:58:15 UTC  

I'd say just don't tell them where you're going they don't need to think you were murdered

2019-02-02 05:58:29 UTC  

Leave a note.

2019-02-02 05:59:11 UTC  

"Love you, dad. Little brothers. I'll see you some time. Keep an eye out."

2019-02-02 05:59:18 UTC  

I'm considering telling them that I've moved out but just not telling them where to

2019-02-02 05:59:28 UTC  

In your note, yeah.

2019-02-02 05:59:35 UTC  

But don't tell them to their face. It's a trap.

2019-02-02 05:59:39 UTC  

In a note I agree

2019-02-02 05:59:53 UTC  

Yh, they'll try to get me to stay

2019-02-02 05:59:55 UTC  

But they'll search your contacts.