Message from @bornfree2001
Discord ID: 541134351052832768
My situation is that I'm at college, on an apprenticeship I'm looking to move out in 5 months and I cannot stay in a house with my fucking whale of a mother, a cuck of a father, my three younger brothers and my spoiled sister
It sounds like you've been planning to leave for awhile
Yh, would you like to know what my mother does if she doesn't like something?
She throws it in the trash
I suggest looking at your parents as adults that were your caretakers for your youth. Once you are an adult, you can look at them as other adults: would you spend any time with them if they weren't your parents?
No
Time to plan your escape.
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Too fucking right
Mind you, don't burn a bridge you don't have to.
Yh
Oh, and when you leave, you need to ninja vanish.
I want to look out for my younger siblings
You will be able to help after you establish yourself.
You can't help someone drowning if you're not stable.
You will help them by becoming a stable adult and role model to them.
Great advice
Uhh i put the ball in tha uhh hoop
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I have reckoned that I'm gonna stay in my mates dad's house, he has offered to rent out for £100 a person as it is VERY basic, I'm gonna get set up, grind until I've got enough to make change to my life and better myself while I'm doing it, that is my plan, that is my path
You need a bed (I have a hammock), a chair, and a table.
Sounds like a solid start
I own the mattress I sleep on
Don't forget to have some fun from time to time.
Remember, your departure has to be abrupt.
When you leave, your family should wonder what happened.
You can leave them a note, but if you have a cell phone, you gotta reset it and leave it behind.
The only good thing about buying all my own stuff is that I legally own it which is why I'm entitled to take it with me
Don't weigh yourself down right now.
You need to be ready to vanish.
I COULD vanish if I had a half hour and a small van
I'd say just don't tell them where you're going they don't need to think you were murdered
Leave a note.
"Love you, dad. Little brothers. I'll see you some time. Keep an eye out."
I'm considering telling them that I've moved out but just not telling them where to
In your note, yeah.
But don't tell them to their face. It's a trap.
In a note I agree
Yh, they'll try to get me to stay
But they'll search your contacts.