Message from @BlaqShiep
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I never valued "pussy"
I did value women...
Instinctually i assume...
And now you do not.. at that moment you valued women, and in this one, you do not... So which moment is supposed to be the one of value?
At the moment i did... That was that version of myself
I know who he was and i do not fault him
So, is there one self, many or none?
Who i am now... I must proceed in the correct fashion or i am blasphemous to my own valuss
There is one moment
If you cannot find a fault with that self, why change him?
Disregard self... Focus on now
The moment
But you just admitted that you needed a self in order to be in a particular moment...
I feel you BlaqShiep...but once a nut was had, have you never questioned your "values" beforehand? Felt ashamed of tolerating a conversation where your woman denigrates a coworker for shoe choice, or quickly closed a porn tab after finishing only to suddenly wish you hadn't spent so much time on it and quickly went back to doing something more rewarding?
In that Moment there was no fault... To behave like him now... Is a fault
Of course i have
values are dynamic, at least I fear so...
But you just said that there is but only one moment? How can you suggest that a self at one moment is bad after this one, yet all moments are one?
But you answer your own question
I felt shame
Its really that simple
So, shame determines which self is correct?
When there is no shame... Thete is no need to correct
One factor yes
Shame is a motivator
What about a woman's shame?
Fuck her
What about YOU... This MGTOW
Not how can we change her
How do you adapt?
What do YOU do?
So... do you pick and choose which shame is worth change and which is not?
Explain
Seven of Swords -- that's the fucked up thing isn't it? Shame comes AFTER -- for it to determine something....that's a curse, you'd never realize till after you betrayed your own standards eh?
Haha yeah boss
So, you have to betray your own standards in order to know them?
Life is a cruel teacher... Gives you the test first then the lesson
Seven
maybe you do -- it is trial and learn reality, language, shame, morals, values, etc.
You are over intellectualizing