Mysteriedingens - There is one more brutal "pill" to consume that will abate your desire for revenge, though it may beset you further. "Not in the physical way but to prove her wrong about her respectless manipulative behavior towards me." Unfortunately, anytime you encounter a lack of respect and manipulation, you are almost assuredly confronting sociopathy. She may feel not be Ted Bundy in the full capacity, perhaps capable of feeling something for a kid, her family, a pet (doubtful), but you were clearly nothing but a slavebody to her. Dreaming for revenge in the form of her realizing her wrongdoing is absolutely impossible. There simply is no conscience to speak of, and if that makes a human then realizing that will help you ignore her for the philosophical zombie she is. If you can easily fuck another female, yes it is recommended because it will depedestalize the previous pussy, though take great care not to glorify the next other than a nut. The hardest part of your ordeal is the fact that you will need to continue study near her. Letting go of your need for justice is a good way through it. Once you realize she is no more worthy or considerate than your average junky on the street, and that her value you to was only ever really culminated in the nut and her other "contributions" merely burdens -- yes even the tender moments -- you will be free.

Morals are constructed, unlike gender. Just my take.

Could well reflect their moral state. The assertion from Hamlet "There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so" resonates with me but certainly not some who think there is a metaphysical moral fabric.

For sure though, you have your own value system and matching your moral framework to that and actually acting in accordance with it will give you a peace of sorts. Part of going your own way isn't it? I feel paying 10k for an engagement ring to throw on a woman's hand for the purpose of gloating and status is nonsensical and immoral, so doing such a thing for conformity's sake will tear at my own constructed moral fabric.

Maybe you agree with Shakespeare? "Nothing either good or bad" ...but...Some have "moral knowledge" of what is right and wrong in their own realm, "thinking makes it so."

You probably have some sense of what is moral to yourself, but you can also end up feeling like shit living in a way not befitting your own (unrealized) moral sense. It is possible to develop a moral knowledge that fits your understanding of the world and to some extent influences your behaviour. Some of us are less certain of our righteousness, while some have no problem chopping off heads for videos in accordance with their own moral superiority.

They do not. They may only know that their moral sensibilities align with their values.

Experience only, I'd say. Sadly, some receive it from others in the form of religion/politics/"mommy said so"/friends/conformity/TV commercials.

Your values will change throughout your life.

Here's a thought though--how many of us valued pussy. But come kenjataimu...as sure as the sun.

I feel you BlaqShiep...but once a nut was had, have you never questioned your "values" beforehand? Felt ashamed of tolerating a conversation where your woman denigrates a coworker for shoe choice, or quickly closed a porn tab after finishing only to suddenly wish you hadn't spent so much time on it and quickly went back to doing something more rewarding?

values are dynamic, at least I fear so...

Seven of Swords -- that's the fucked up thing isn't it? Shame comes AFTER -- for it to determine something....that's a curse, you'd never realize till after you betrayed your own standards eh?

maybe you do -- it is trial and learn reality, language, shame, morals, values, etc.

Seven -- just try out living in accordance with your own sensibilities. We cannot answer for you. You must live your own way.

it's a bit too abstract