Message from @Denno

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2018-10-04 11:09:37 UTC  

I think it depends on their motive

2018-10-04 11:09:47 UTC  

If its out of codependence then no

2018-10-04 11:10:12 UTC  

If its a personal choice where they define that as MGTOW. Then it is an act of MGTOW to them

2018-10-04 11:11:27 UTC  

not personally

2018-10-04 11:11:32 UTC  

I see it as a shaming tactic

2018-10-04 11:12:57 UTC  

Women by default will shame men because they cannot see outside the self

2018-10-04 11:13:07 UTC  

Sounds like a typical American definition... It's mgtow if you want it to be... Regardless of your actions?

2018-10-04 11:13:08 UTC  

They need the co-dependence. It's manufactured power

2018-10-04 11:13:29 UTC  

As for gay cohabitation, it is an alternative. Same could be said for trans too

2018-10-04 11:15:04 UTC  

But it also depends on legal definitions

2018-10-04 11:15:17 UTC  

Meh

2018-10-04 11:15:29 UTC  

@Artemis There is yet no definition of MGTOW as it is a loose Movement. The problem with cohabitation only comes to play if you find yourself restricted in fulfilling your needs within your living space. E.g. women decorating the shit out of your apartment. There is margin between these things. Roommates with shared living spaces for example.

2018-10-04 11:15:38 UTC  

Same as social norms in particular contexts

2018-10-04 11:16:41 UTC  

But MGTOW overall is going your own way

2018-10-04 11:17:18 UTC  

in the practical sense, its up to the individual to realise that

2018-10-04 11:17:50 UTC  

Stoicism and stoic principles and the way of the warrior do have some core tenets of mgtow

2018-10-04 11:18:16 UTC  

Well her guilt is also societal guilt too

2018-10-04 11:18:36 UTC  

I don't see women as separate from the collective identity

2018-10-04 11:18:57 UTC  

but the programming is designed to create guilt

2018-10-04 11:19:21 UTC  

a way to measure it would be based off the objectives

2018-10-04 11:19:31 UTC  

law - politics - culture - norms

2018-10-04 11:22:01 UTC  

yes

2018-10-04 11:22:06 UTC  

monk mode I'd say yes

2018-10-04 11:22:18 UTC  

same as purple pill ghosting

2018-10-04 11:22:31 UTC  

But if you are actually completely open and honest to the woman, why shouldn't it work? @Mysteriedingens

2018-10-04 11:22:40 UTC  

@Denno are you a woman?

2018-10-04 11:22:51 UTC  

im trans

2018-10-04 11:23:22 UTC  

Male to female?

2018-10-04 11:23:28 UTC  

yes

2018-10-04 11:23:48 UTC  

@Artemis I dont say that cohabitation with women doesn't work if you keep your boundaries. I just assume it would not be an option for longterm (as relationships in general). Enjoy being with her as long as she is nice, after that throw her out and look the fuck out for keeping your ressources.

2018-10-04 11:24:12 UTC  

but I will keep my male bits

2018-10-04 11:24:12 UTC  

Women tend to rewrite history if they feel not served as they desire

2018-10-04 11:24:27 UTC  

they are a wild card

2018-10-04 11:24:39 UTC  

can't be quantified as much

2018-10-04 11:24:45 UTC  

only observed

2018-10-04 11:25:35 UTC  

@Denno if you don't mind me asking, why are you keeping them?

2018-10-04 11:25:51 UTC  

my sovereignty

2018-10-04 11:25:57 UTC  

and for medical reasons

2018-10-04 11:26:37 UTC  

@Artemis There are these slow indicators showing when a woman tries to take over your living space. Leaving toothbrush, Makeup, clothing. keep it restricted only let her take things to your place to certain extend. Dont let her make it look like she lives there. As long as this is the case, nobody can take away your things

2018-10-04 11:27:12 UTC  

@Mysteriedingens Seems like a very prosaic way to look at it. Du scheinst den Teufel an die Wand zu malen.

2018-10-04 11:27:13 UTC  

brb