This is TMI but I watch porn for 5-10 mins whenever I do do the deed and I only do the deed once every few days (3-4 days usually).

I had fun hunting women before but now it just seems like a waste of time.

@machtyn I think that's healthy.

It can help hel......and when I was 30, I would have disagreed....but even before I became a Christian.......I was laying off it, and I did notice a difference in work, dreams, drive, ability and energy

@Deleted User Yeah, I think the beginning of every month I am going to completely abstain for a week or two.

I AM GONNA MAKE A FAPPING SCHEDULE

there's no escape

either you're pussy whipped irl or virtually

@hel I mean... not really.

@machtyn no fapping schedules! You're going to loose your mind

@Kazemaru I was kidding 😄

Now...with that said.....I am not letting myself go physically. I will not be fat. No way

@hel I don't change my behavior to accommodate women anymore so I'm not whipped. I never really was whipped. I just need visuals for 5-10 mins and I'm good unless I am actually having sex with a woman and then I last longer for obvious reasons.

Do it @Deleted User , it's never too late to get a Greek God physique

Also, keeping the monk stage is very difficult, especealy if women keeps flerting with you

Anyone read No More Mr. Nice Guy?

@hel That's my goal! I stopped going for power lifting now I just want to be ripped.

@hel It's excellent!

It's a shame the (((Allies))) tore down the statues built by Arno Breker.

Lol.....never was "adonis" but was always slender...light definition.......nor do I want to be adonis now...but I do want to stay slender, keep what's left of my hair neat and clean.........and keep my honed style up without looking "silly" (an older guy trying to act like he's 25)

They were inspired by Ancient Greece and Romans, and their cult of godly physique.

@Deleted User I'm 24... how do 25 year olds act? haha

How do 18 year olds should act?

@hel Right 😄

lol

HHH tryed to be a monk, but women just kept flerting with him, so he could not resist

Kaze, I really don't have that prblem......they don't flirt with me.....some my age do, but....er......no thanks......you have three kids, a trillion past BJ's and debt

At first it's difficult to be cold towards women when you're conditioned to be always nice

@Kazemaru I think he was monk for a reason then started seeing how women couldn't resist him. I have the same outlook. Plus, I am debating a vasectomy before I go back into having sex.

But it gets easier once you let go of your fake persona and just be yourself for yourself

Lol...what I mean is a man my age, dressing in more of the current style today to "think" or "feel" his younger. Me having a beard would really look "silly" at my age, like I was trying to fit in.

@hel Seriously.

I 'm coming out of the monk phase myself personally. HHH said that men have to decide for themselves whether they want to be celibate or not. I agree wholeheartedly

Youtube -"Hi, My name is Carla Shaw"

Smashing is one thing, signing a legal document or shacking up with a girl and getting fucked in court over common law is another

@KenneticEnergy I've had sex with a few women but I need to be celibate to focus on myself the next year 😄

I will never have kids, get married or cohabitate.

@machtyn Good on you

Smashing can still get you in trouble....a nasty STD........she "lied" about being "safe" or suddenly, a few years later smears your name by the whole "he raped me"

@Deleted User That is why I would get a vasectomy if I do re-enter the sexual marketplace.

I am never protected against "he raped me."