Im a bachelor. Haven't had a woman in 5 years. I turned down 3 dates in the last month alone and I am confident about myself and not unattractive. I see modern woman as pernicious and a pointless venture.

barefootshoegazer?

That mean you have a foot fetish?

I go to the gym 3 days a week and rock climb 2 days a week but I enjoy whiskey and beer too so not a monk. I work hard and constantly study. Mostly electronics but I follow politics closely too. I have 3 jobs and several hobbies. Chess, climbing and hiking and walking.

@Jorky I feel you man, but don't let it get to you

I am new to philosophy but eager to learn.

Awesome, just watch out because you might start subconsciously looking for women's attraction to you, I like it as well and I have problems trying to not care

I've only rejected girls around at least 5 times

It feels really good, I'm not going to lie

It doesn't get me at all. I feel like I'm talking to a shitty sales person when woman approach me. I'm just not interested in any of them but I still enjoy porn. The hetero kind :)

I was a Chad in my youth. Guilty. Long time ago tho. I'm 38 now.

Ah you watch porn, I personally don't because I believe that it damages your brains reward system, but that might be why I have problems with attracting women

@Knight of Sunlight Something of guitar terminology.

I'm not that much of a Chad, I'm still going to puberty btw, so that might be the reason for my problem

Oh it does desensise you to woman. That I know. You won't be happy with an average housewife if you are used to whacking off to hot sluts.

Lol, I guess you are right, and man I really don't look at women the same way other guys do around my age, I am not easily impressed by average looking women like all my buddies, I really am not interested in any girl, plus I'm being pursued by a psycho that almost ruined my life 3 years ago

I had many woman in my teens and twenties. I just got bored and started to pursue self interests. I've no regrets.

Distance yourself from her if she is trying to do it again.

Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. To misquote George Bush lol.

Yeah I have been, but I have to admit, it is scary just thinking about how screwed up she could get me

Trust your guy feeling about her. If she done it once she will do it again.

Yeah I can bet my life on that

You screw you self up tho. Don't let her assist you in that.

I have no remorse for turning her off with small talk

Cut her out completely. Find greener pastures. Keep exploring til you find yourself.

I will try to, I was thinking about talking to the President of the school about it but I doubt it will do any good

I love this video, @Happy Humble Hermit. Great job on this topic!

He hit it on the nail with this one.

Bob, just wait 10 mins before replying to her. Then 20 next week. 30 following week etc til she gets bored. That's the path of least resistance.

Personally, I doubt I would bother talking to the president but it's been a long time since I was at school so I have no idea how things are at schools today.

There's every chance it could backfire on you.

Otoh walking away quietly rarely fails.

ok

im ok

Thats good. Hows your insurance situation going?

im fucked

Well thats not great.

Sorry to hear that.

i know i am just trying to forget about it with chemicals but its futile

If you set up crowd funding or donations i will donate.