'i do this because i love you'

fucking hell

it's not her fault

i had this argument with my dad how i owe him 2 days ago

but she needs to understand that she's not persuading me with logic but with emotional blackamil

'unless you specificly picked me from all your other spermatozoids, i owe you nothing' and thats that for him :3

I think the problem is, most people don't dream. Dreams create goals and goals make plans. Plans create fear for fucking them up. Since people don't do those things, they go about life doing whatever. Next thing you know they have kids, debt, shitty jobs. Then they ask how they got there and place their grief on their loved ones.

@Commanda Knuckel nice one

@MufflePuff yeah exactly - it's a sad cycle

tis what it tis

🍻 Good on everyone here for finding MGTOW young as fuck.

yea right 😄

Yes

well that actually means nothing. nobody has a choice to be here. parents have a choice to have their kids

when did you guys self-actualise?

gradual process over my entire life.

like puzzle pieces

if you wouldnt mind sharing, what potential was it you actualised?

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have you been gradually actualising

What do you mean?

when you self-actualise, doesn't it mean that you can now understand and see your potential - so you have a direction to go in

For me it was: First 25% before high school. Next 50% during high school. Last 25% from 18-25 years old.

I'm sure @shadowlessnexus has a clever definition for it.

I just see it as knowing yourself.

Seeing the big picture of life.

Understanding the world and your place in it.

yeah, ngl i think self-actualisation's definition for me is: knowing yourself and being completely honest about everything

self actualization is realizing that the only opinion that matters to your self worth. is your own. it also means that you validate yourself as a person and give that power to nobody else

there ya go

wow

that's beautiful

Nexus is like a lucky leprechaun.

Nexus is like MGTOW Siri.

meh. karma balances it out. bad childhood then i get the smarts i guess

mgtow siri oh god

i guess you can only truly self-actualise having spent time alone - allowing you to self-reflect

like 3+ months

yup bad childhood gives you the skillz

yea i would agree. self actualization requires you to look deep inside yourself.

^^^^^