i used to be this one incell that finally got a shot at girls and it was so shallow that i fell in depression of what i was doing with my life - lie and look good,get some booty, repeat

@Roundabout Lout women say they want an emotional guy but in reality they don't

@Null Yup! They'll never admit how much it turns them off

@Commanda Knuckel pretty much once you understand dating is nothing but people lying to themselves and others for sex you get tired of the games

They already carry enough baggage. Their brains wouldn’t be able to handle it because it’s like having another annoying girlfriend @Null

@Capt'n Loyal ⚓ that is pretty telling how they can't even stand themselves, how the hell do they expect someone else to?

Think that monogamy just isn't for humans? There are some species that are monogamist species that have been studied by biologists. I heard over and over that female nature has been like this since ancient times, but it was repressed and controlled. It's only now with all this sexual liberation that we see so much cheating, riding the CC, hypergamy

Men's nature is to bed as many women as possible and create as many offspring as possible. Female nature seems to be to hold down the strongest alpha they can find

and they have strategies to hold down that alpha

until they get bored of course

@Change Order lets get you a news reporter role

@Sigma women have way too much in common with narcissists which is always depressing

@Change Order you the news reporter now

Find a strong guy then hold him down. Cheers. Sounds like a kidnapper

That's true, but honestly I have some narcissistic tendencies myself. Social media doesn't help with that either. Women love validation, approval, and attention.

use the DENNIS system

For me personally I need to learn to self validate more effectively, maybe through serious training in some hobbies

perhaps mastery of a subject

I'm gonna google the DENNIS system

Okay, Urban dictionary explained what that was

So alpha widows got that system used on them

Well @Sigma narcissism is the western culture and way of life so your chances of growing up in the West and not being narcissistic are extremely anorexic

@Sigma it's from always sunny in philidelphia

yea I've seen that show a few times

good show

Dennis and frank are the best

Validation from others doesn't do a whole lot for me if those others are idiots, vain, ignorant, or self-centered

So the narcissist gene skipped over my pond... unless you want to call my taste for soft-core S&M narcissism

Well people tend to create the person they think you are in their imagination, when the reality is that they don't know you one bit. Even if they've known you for years, they don't know shit about you

I can say I don't even know myself that much and I'm learning everyday and evolving

Nothing like being chased by women cuz you have money or women like you or you're popular. Major turn off

Things like doing shadow work on yourself is pretty much never ending

True

@ValleyAnt be humble and try not to take the compliment because if you criticism is soon to follow

self mastery is a lifelong journey

What's shadow work

Looking at your dark side

@Null can you explain

Great! I love being honest with myself and looking at my dark side

your shadow self are all the dark qualities that you have that you are hiding from public eye

I believe you gotta take the whole