Message from @ValleyAnt

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2018-11-29 20:45:35 UTC  

even though i think in the sexual market place women do some fucked up things .....i think in the area of children women are most important for nurturing like u need the mix of male and female influence

2018-11-29 20:45:48 UTC  

to raise a proper child

2018-11-29 20:46:00 UTC  

I agree with that

2018-11-29 20:46:21 UTC  

The schools are mostly female teachers though. I recently thought that we need more male teachers

2018-11-29 20:46:24 UTC  

actually after a kid is weaned the sex of the parent is inconsequential...

2018-11-29 20:47:09 UTC  

Balance is key in all things. Too many things are unbalanced

2018-11-29 20:47:14 UTC  

ergh i dont think so in single parent homes in almost every risk factor its worse than in homes with both parents

2018-11-29 20:47:29 UTC  

Balance is the 🔑

2018-11-29 20:48:09 UTC  

Single parent households don't do well

2018-11-29 20:48:28 UTC  

kids need close social contact for proper mental development until weaned... after that either sex can provide the needed environment...

2018-11-29 20:49:12 UTC  

actually if a man did it right he could replace the weaning process w//the same result...

2018-11-29 20:50:29 UTC  

technically there is nothing in human development that actually requires a female other than gestation and birth...

2018-11-29 20:51:33 UTC  

i am no expert in this field but women their high levels of estrogen the way it makes them act i do not think a man can replicate that .... again i am no expert so i could be wrong

2018-11-29 20:52:05 UTC  

the nursing and weaning process simply allow the appropriate neural development for socialization in later life...

2018-11-29 20:52:30 UTC  

@ziyauren you're actually right about that. A father can fulfill all motherly roles except birth, nursing, and being soft and snuggle... But a woman can barely accomplish fatherly roles

2018-11-29 20:52:43 UTC  

It's fun to theorize like that. We are influenced by emotions, behavior, and probably a bunch of other shit we don't know much about

2018-11-29 20:52:46 UTC  

that could, technically, be done w/out a woman

2018-11-29 20:53:24 UTC  

@matthias09 you're right, estrogen can't be replicated. But there's a reason men are XY and women don't have a Y

2018-11-29 20:53:52 UTC  

a bottle w/a great deal of social and physical contact could serve the same purpose

2018-11-29 20:53:59 UTC  

im not sure about it ill do some research about how children fare in single parent mothers vs father homes

2018-11-29 20:54:18 UTC  

Both fatherly and motherly (or male and female) traits reside in the male. In fact it's one reason why there are more males changing sex than female

2018-11-29 20:55:10 UTC  

So the male has the capacity to be a mother (except for birth and nursing) while the female doesn't have the capacity to be a father

2018-11-29 20:55:34 UTC  

the primary value of a natural womb is immune system related

2018-11-29 20:55:58 UTC  

im already getting some strong facts about that "2. Single fathers are more likely to be white, older, and somewhat better educated, compared to single mothers."

2018-11-29 20:56:00 UTC  

lmaoo

2018-11-29 20:56:02 UTC  

seems legit

2018-11-29 20:56:07 UTC  

also the 'other' factor in nursing

2018-11-29 20:57:32 UTC  

Furthermore, the NCFMR reports that single fathers are slightly more likely than single moms to have at least a bachelor’s degree (23% of single dads vs. 18% of single moms)

2018-11-29 20:57:35 UTC  

not much research on that in this culture but historcally boys were removed from mothers at a very early age and raised by fathers... no indication of harm in the process

2018-11-29 20:57:49 UTC  

it seems so far that single fathers are just more educated than mothers

2018-11-29 20:58:12 UTC  

Ohh shit, that's right @ziyauren

2018-11-29 20:58:31 UTC  

Rights of passage for boys to transition into men

2018-11-29 20:58:52 UTC  

the problem is fathers r so unlikely to get their kids in this culture u can't get an apples to apples study going...

2018-11-29 20:58:54 UTC  

Single fathers are far more patient with kiddies

2018-11-29 20:59:01 UTC  

Rights of passage isn't a thing anymore

2018-11-29 20:59:05 UTC  

theres not alot of data from single dads

2018-11-29 20:59:10 UTC  

because there isnt alot of them

2018-11-29 20:59:13 UTC  

it should be

2018-11-29 20:59:15 UTC  

relative to single moms

2018-11-29 20:59:26 UTC  

@Sigma "rites" not "rights" though you do have the right to undergo a rite

2018-11-29 20:59:29 UTC  

it is the first thing women took away from men