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Misawa?
yes
Misawa, Aomori
its japans largest american army base
1/5th of the population is american soldiers and their families
so english is fine
tho tbh
my only visa option is probably just marriage
pls no more only talk.
If you want to work on a base there's a lot of contacting and civil service options
i didnt say i wanted to work on base
i just figured misawa because its same population as my current city, coastal, has large american prescence (so english is usable there so i wouldnt have a language barirer) and its up north
i wouldn't work well on a base
i have social disabilities
do you have someone who cares?
no
Working in IT isn't that bad, everyone in IT had some kind of social problem tbh
epic and truthpilled
like, my disablity isnt like... bad, or anything, basically im just shy, and when i get asked/told to do something i have no clue how to do i get anxious and risk a panic attack
technically i could do a desk job, so i can talk to people as long as i know what im supposed to do and say
also, im not good with emotion, so i say things super blunt with no tone and no expressions, so ppl seem to think im rude
ha
If you're doing tier 2 work like network engineering or something, you'll deal very little with people, and that's always good lol
I'm really tired of working a job at this point and I'm not going to do this until I'm 65 or 95 or whatever they'll push my retirement age to. Think I'll try my hand and making software like this bot and try to make shekels from it.
Donate to muh patreon lmap
Me but unironically hopefully soon
getting married is the best option tbh, i dont technically have to work and due to japans traditional views it would be perfectly acceptable for me to be a stay at home housewife so long as my husband can actually afford us both
but getting married is hard when i havent had srs yet, i have zero effort put in to looking good for a partner, and i live in an area with no japs
or, japs that are jap citizens, since they have to be a jap citizen
i might take vacations in japan or something idk
or i can try to study in japan and go from there, but like, me and school DO NOT mix
especially in another language
For trans stuff you're not even considered female here until you've had some kind of bottom surgery from what I understand
But I mean they don't seem to care at all over here. The only people who stare at you if you look different are old people or kids. Everyone else pretends you don't exist. Not just for trans stuff. I've seen people getting in the train wearing the absolutely most hilarious cosplay items and people pretend they aren't even there
But then again that's Tokyo, people don't really talk at all on the trains there
I came back from a sports event once and had some really goofy facepaint on. Thought I was going to get a few laughs, nobody even looked at me. It's really weird sometimes
Best bet tbh would be a contract position on base until you find something more stable or can manage to get married. I would avoid working for Japanese companies at this point if your goal is to get married because you'll have no real time to date working 18 hours a day 7 days a week.
American companies with branches in Japan are also a good option but takes a lot of searching.
For example Dell here is a good company to work for.
dell used to be a good company to work for in ireland until they moved their europe operations out to poland
which was ironic because at the exact time they did it