i can program and build computers

but im not that good at it

mostly cuz i dont practice

三沢市

tbh tho

Misawa?

yes

Misawa, Aomori

its japans largest american army base

1/5th of the population is american soldiers and their families

so english is fine

tho tbh

my only visa option is probably just marriage

pls no more only talk.

If you want to work on a base there's a lot of contacting and civil service options

i didnt say i wanted to work on base

i just figured misawa because its same population as my current city, coastal, has large american prescence (so english is usable there so i wouldnt have a language barirer) and its up north

i wouldn't work well on a base

i have social disabilities

do you have someone who cares?

no

Working in IT isn't that bad, everyone in IT had some kind of social problem tbh

epic and truthpilled

like, my disablity isnt like... bad, or anything, basically im just shy, and when i get asked/told to do something i have no clue how to do i get anxious and risk a panic attack

technically i could do a desk job, so i can talk to people as long as i know what im supposed to do and say

also, im not good with emotion, so i say things super blunt with no tone and no expressions, so ppl seem to think im rude

ha

If you're doing tier 2 work like network engineering or something, you'll deal very little with people, and that's always good lol

I'm really tired of working a job at this point and I'm not going to do this until I'm 65 or 95 or whatever they'll push my retirement age to. Think I'll try my hand and making software like this bot and try to make shekels from it.

Donate to muh patreon lmap

Me but unironically hopefully soon

getting married is the best option tbh, i dont technically have to work and due to japans traditional views it would be perfectly acceptable for me to be a stay at home housewife so long as my husband can actually afford us both

but getting married is hard when i havent had srs yet, i have zero effort put in to looking good for a partner, and i live in an area with no japs

or, japs that are jap citizens, since they have to be a jap citizen

i might take vacations in japan or something idk

or i can try to study in japan and go from there, but like, me and school DO NOT mix

especially in another language

For trans stuff you're not even considered female here until you've had some kind of bottom surgery from what I understand

But I mean they don't seem to care at all over here. The only people who stare at you if you look different are old people or kids. Everyone else pretends you don't exist. Not just for trans stuff. I've seen people getting in the train wearing the absolutely most hilarious cosplay items and people pretend they aren't even there

But then again that's Tokyo, people don't really talk at all on the trains there

I came back from a sports event once and had some really goofy facepaint on. Thought I was going to get a few laughs, nobody even looked at me. It's really weird sometimes