Message from @turtwig
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it's nothing to do with race and everything to do with it being an unmanageable fucking mess
```Hair is more than what it looks like ... for black and mixed-race women, it’s often political.```
my sides
political hair
Cut those black people down
by cutting their hair!
```My boyfriend introduced me to elements of black culture I’d never been exposed to before - books by black authors, traditional dishes, music. One day, he suggested I’d look amazing with my natural hair. It was the push I needed. I ditched the straighteners and extensions. I was worried about the reaction after so many years of bullying, but needed to give it a go.
I started teaching myself how to look after it by reading natural hair blogs and watching early YouTube videos. I’d spend hours in my room learning about which products to use and how to detangle curls. After about nine months, it had grown into thick, full curls. For the first time in my life, I loved my hair.```
if it took her 14 years to get to get to that point
plus the insistence of a boyfriend
I kinda feel like she wasn't really that bothered by it
lol
it just shows you how good we have it, that this is considered an issue
the next thing her boyfriend will teach her is how to be a single mom
you know what I do when I'm not happy with my hair?
fucking nothing
it's hair
it doesn't matter
something something lived experience
and she makes out like ***young children*** are terrible racists for being surprised by her unusual hair
when I went to to Tunisia there were grown men in the streets amazed by my wife's perfectly smooth straight hair
get over yourself
and the whole black girl hair thing is almost completely contained in their own culture
what ever complex they have about it is self created
yep
white people dont give a shit
only extremely superficial wastrels give a shit
but why would you want to associate with them anyway
blacks have this whole light skinned dark skinned thing going on too, that is also within their own community
i knew a black girl whos parents didnt want her to go in the sun so she wouldn't get darker lol
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you never heard about that?
maybe it's an american thing
darker skinned blacks are i guess jealous of lighter skinned blacks, and so the light skinned ones get a lot of shit for it apparently
lol wtf
why the fuck does it matter
tfw racism against the blacks is perpetuated by the blacks
yeah, i dont know if this is true or not, but i have heard that it started with the divide between house slaves and the ones that worked in the fields
the ones in the field would obviously be darker than the ones in the house, and maybe there was resentment there that carried over culturally through the generations
is that really how blackness works
I thought it was the amount of melanin not time spent in the sun lol
blacks can still get tan