Rude.

plenty of people have absent fathers

I think everyone has a place like that where someone important failed in some way when they were young, everyone is broken, you're not alone in feeling how you feel. You're only special in that you understand that you're broken and are interested in finding healing, and that's what Christ is all about.

For example my only bf was very submissive, feminine, and was like my counterpart in most ways a girlfriend would be. So in that sense it's hard to see if that's me projecting some sort of father issues. Ya know?

maybe it was my mother

Overly caring mother?

no she was very distant

Bruh.

It's a synthesis, you want women clearly, you just have combined in your mind that longing for women with that longing for masculine love. So you seek feminine men.

hmm maybe you are right

so cursed this shit can happen

Oh I think Vitality is spot on.

I'm curious about why tho.

Your body wants the feminine, your heart needs brotherhood. Satan is good at corrupting right desire into twisted parody.

Also, low chance he remembers his early childhood very well.

also I'll brb one min, I do like talking about this it helps me sort how my feelings

And what may be causing them

@SUPER MALE VITALITY™ I just though of something

What if the reason I can't connect emotionally with women is due to a distant mother

That could definitely be a component. The mother is responsible for a lot of specific socialization, without that it's easy to miss grasping an understanding of women

Distant mother would mean avoidant personality.

Especially without a father that takes up that responsibility for her, which is actually better but rare these days

But chad is more anxious.

I'm very anxious haha

I feel like maybe I just didn't recieve validation in critical years

from mother or father

An now you're retarded

Fuck off worf 🙄

@Wrath fuck off

Nyet

I don't know why you're so anxious then.

I think you don'ty remember your mom well enough.

Which is fine because it would be around 2-3-4 years.

Isolation is kind of a funky thing, does a lot of things to a lot of types. I definitely feel you, I struggled with those kinds of feelings myself in my younger years trying to understand people and holding on to that sort of deep seated longing for validation. It's easy to find in depravity if you slip down that slope, but it doesn't last.

yeah I mean I'm definitely not avoidant

I welcome people wanting to get close if anything

But yeah I'm sure my parents being cunts had a lot if not all to do with it

They cheated on eachother like multiple times and had me involved in it when I was like 8

clownish

Unresponsive parents are 80% of all fucked up.