Message from @Romanus Drevo

Discord ID: 451926427659534366


2018-06-01 01:12:57 UTC  

Okay bois

2018-06-01 01:13:05 UTC  

I'm in a pickle!

2018-06-01 01:14:58 UTC  

What's your problem?

2018-06-01 01:25:50 UTC  

So, see, I spent 5 years with a person and I thought she was perfect, but long story short; she decided to thot up and throw it all away because "MUST ENJOY MY YOUTH" kind of thought. K fine I already overcame that. But it appears that I forgot how to approach people and I can't seem to correct myself, how do you do it? I think it looks strange to just talk to people

2018-06-01 01:26:06 UTC  

Shit, I don't know it that makes any sense.

2018-06-01 01:26:27 UTC  

Okay, let me summarize.

2018-06-01 01:26:42 UTC  

You lost your sweetheart, and know you've forgotten how to introduce yourself.

2018-06-01 01:26:55 UTC  

Yes?

2018-06-01 01:27:57 UTC  

😦

2018-06-01 01:28:27 UTC  

why do women do this more than men?

2018-06-01 01:30:00 UTC  

Pretty much, Kristov

2018-06-01 01:31:09 UTC  

For real Kaitsar, strangely tho, when people heard we had broken up, the first thought they had was that I had screwed up

2018-06-01 01:31:19 UTC  

Imagine their shock.mp3

2018-06-01 01:38:26 UTC  

I'll pray for you.

2018-06-01 01:38:33 UTC  

Are you in an active, young parish?

2018-06-01 01:45:10 UTC  

There are a few people around my age there

2018-06-01 01:45:29 UTC  

But I'm pretty new there

2018-06-01 01:50:31 UTC  

Well, best I can give you is this: get involved in the parish, get involved in the community. You'll have to introduce yourself to people you work with. Stick around after Mass. It helps that you're new, because that's a way of introducing yourself: "Hi, I'm Luiz, I'm new here." And then say something about the parish.

Of course, take this with a grain of salt. I don't currently have a girlfriend, and I never have had one. But I've talked to lots of girls my age, so there you have it.

2018-06-01 01:50:44 UTC  

I really am grateful for prayers btw, thank you

2018-06-01 01:53:17 UTC  

I guess there's no other way to do it other than putting myself in that situation huh. Damn I forgot how awckward I was lol

2018-06-01 01:54:16 UTC  

One thing I can tell you for certain: listen to her. Whoever she is. Don't always talk about yourself.

2018-06-01 01:54:25 UTC  

Hopefully you know that already, just thought I'd make sure.

2018-06-01 01:54:27 UTC  

people love to talk about themselves

2018-06-01 01:54:40 UTC  

always find something to ask them about themselves from what they say

2018-06-01 01:54:45 UTC  

their interests, their experiences, etc

2018-06-01 01:56:09 UTC  

Guys you are being awesome with your support, hope you know that

2018-06-01 01:56:23 UTC  

I do now.

2018-06-01 01:56:37 UTC  

It's what we're here for. Making sure no one falls into despair.

2018-06-01 01:57:12 UTC  

Whether the reason is Communist atrocities, the abortion referendum in Ireland, or losing a girlfriend.

2018-06-01 01:58:53 UTC  

This was killing me inside. I get looks and smiles from time to time but then I just look away and drown in my own awckwardness because I forgot how to act

2018-06-01 01:59:12 UTC  

@Luiz Tinoco message me anytime you want advice socializing or interacting

2018-06-01 01:59:14 UTC  

i'll help if I can

2018-06-01 02:00:04 UTC  

Will take a walk tomorrow morning trying to remember your tips guys, will update wether I made it screwed up again

2018-06-01 02:01:18 UTC  

Thank you, Gaius, I will surelly do, just have to keep this conversation in mind when the chance appears

2018-06-01 02:13:24 UTC  

And it seems there's a party tomorrow, so that was a great timing

2018-06-01 02:13:37 UTC  

Hey, how bout that?

2018-06-01 02:14:20 UTC  

Gosh, my prayers are more potent than I thought...

2018-06-01 02:16:22 UTC  

This discord and /rel has gotta be the best stuff on the internet

2018-06-01 02:16:40 UTC  

Too bad /rel/'s gone.

2018-06-01 02:16:53 UTC  

pour one out.

2018-06-01 02:17:07 UTC  

what happened to /rel/? i deleted my facebook account about 6 months ago.