Hmm lets not go that deep.

I've taken a forensics class and studied a lot of that actually from psychological perspectives n stuff

What perspectives.

Mostly it's like a self fulfilling prophecy rummaging in the subconscious. Like for example parents who disciplined their kids with beatings harshly and they grow up from that and developed harsh attitudes. A child exposed in an environment like that and has a pet where all they do to discipline it is to smack it and yell is offhandedly taught to the kid that thats acceptable behavior or standards. Even if told otherwise it would still mimic to a degree because it's all they know and in a high intense situation where you've become a parent and your kid is acting up - it happens.

It's even worse if you have helicopter parents as a teen because you aren't allowed to get out and explore and experience because of the restrictions and heavy friction between the kid and the parents

Even if you sneak out and stuff it's out of spite and not proper. No respect or trust

Assuming you as a helicopter kid grow up without fixing your traumas what stereotype are you as an adult?

Stereotypes for that type of kid would be introverted, only has accouple friends at most, not apart of any bigger groups and untrusting of them, mostly irratated from others kids

That's just stereotypes tho anyway, they can be points but not main points to how a person can be

That or they at very least grow up into paranoid neurotics

That's true but thats mostly personality which is seperate from behavior

Can one abused kid change himself by auto-suggestion?

Like

Can he go back to being normal

I'm the product of that

Or is the subconscious part stronger

I never had proper parents growing up

So more socialization unfucks them or not?

Yeah basically

What test is that?

ipip300

There's a reason it's rare for a man to be even as good as his father, parents and parental figures pass on every negative trait they regularly exhibit. Breaking the cycle takes a great man of God whose vocation is fatherhood, or a miraculously independent (and also sound-minded) child.

In my case more socialization unfucked me but different types of personalities with differing behaviors differ

>high neuroticism

At least until you breach below societal baseline and society can help correct to a degree

>introvert

we got a serial killer here lmao

Sins of the father

but we're so degraded that's not far above 'crackhead'

Personal story time kinda, I was bullied when younger, parents divorced my mom was paranoid and other shit like this

Right now

I find it difficult to maintain healthy relationships

Prayer helped me

Also, without contradicting the psychological explanation there is a spiritual layer

But am I totally fucked or is there a chance to be normal

With Christ all things are possible

Well first thing to do is realize you are normal. Seperate yourself from what you believe to be and rise above it.

@Alex R. eat more meat

Personally, I think that fact I'm at all functional is God honoring a prayer I made as a child

@Ironclad well I still practice easter lent

In a week sure