@Orthodox Andy he means get busy
You dont treat your godparents as your actual relatives?
Get busy praying to God for help in finding a woman
Godparents just don't have that natural biologocial drive of your blood parents do see you reproduce
And get busy just talking to women
well, I need to pray, and I guess I'll need a lot of prayers too
They want to see you grow spiritually
And sometimes marriage is apart of that
Not as friends but as potential mates
where do we set the bar on women?
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@Arkona 92 you think they think I'm ready?
I mean, what standards should we have for women? Obviously things have changed a lot in recent history
Try to find a virgin if possible
isn't that virtually impossible in modern America?
Otherwise just find one with the minimum amount of men slept with
That'll be tough
Basically just cast a lot of lines and then go with the best offer (as long as she isn't crazy and doesn't seem like the type to divorce you for your money etc)
Which means you need to talk to a lot of different women, every day if possible
1 other man can be a mistake if you need to lower your standards, 2 is poor judgement, 3+ I'd say is past the line. No divorcees
Just get in the habit of making small talk with people in general
where do you even meet women?
When walking down the street
Just start making small talk or just asking women for directions or whatever
Walk to woman Take her hand Tell her "You're mine now" Happily ever married
Once you get used to the idea that not every woman you talk to must be a success, it will be easier to ask for a number
well, I have to start somewhere
>the street >Not church Heathens
I found it easy to talk to the bartender at times
There aren't any single girls at my parish
and when there were, none of them wanted to talk to me or showed any interest in me at all
one even showed active avoidance
> church Good luck lmao
The bartender showed interest in me
Does that count?
Plenty of lapsed Catholic girls not in church
I'm Orthodox
Well that depends where you are then
dating pool is smaller for you then
Just find a non slut and convert her
where do I find non sluts?
