well yeah, but it's one thing when your blood does it, because they are self interested

another thing when people who aren't your blood relatives say that

lol

Maybe your godfather is worried about you

worried about what?

Worried that you’ll be alone with no kids

Maybe he sees something that you don't in you

what could he see in me?

A married man

what do you mean by that?

@Orthodox Andy he means get busy

You dont treat your godparents as your actual relatives?

Get busy praying to God for help in finding a woman

Godparents just don't have that natural biologocial drive of your blood parents do see you reproduce

And get busy just talking to women

well, I need to pray, and I guess I'll need a lot of prayers too

They want to see you grow spiritually

And sometimes marriage is apart of that

Not as friends but as potential mates

where do we set the bar on women?

?

@Arkona 92 you think they think I'm ready?

I mean, what standards should we have for women? Obviously things have changed a lot in recent history

Try to find a virgin if possible

isn't that virtually impossible in modern America?

Otherwise just find one with the minimum amount of men slept with

That'll be tough

Basically just cast a lot of lines and then go with the best offer (as long as she isn't crazy and doesn't seem like the type to divorce you for your money etc)

Which means you need to talk to a lot of different women, every day if possible

1 other man can be a mistake if you need to lower your standards, 2 is poor judgement, 3+ I'd say is past the line. No divorcees

Just get in the habit of making small talk with people in general

where do you even meet women?

When walking down the street

Just start making small talk or just asking women for directions or whatever

Walk to woman
Take her hand
Tell her
"You're mine now"
Happily ever married

Once you get used to the idea that not every woman you talk to must be a success, it will be easier to ask for a number

well, I have to start somewhere

>the street
>Not church

Heathens

I found it easy to talk to the bartender at times

There aren't any single girls at my parish

and when there were, none of them wanted to talk to me or showed any interest in me at all