Message from @gecho

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2019-01-18 19:32:20 UTC  

dumb cunt co worker, mind your own business

2019-01-18 19:32:22 UTC  

Like I ask them and they never ask me back.

2019-01-18 19:32:33 UTC  

They're just friendly and wants to like not appear awkward.

2019-01-18 19:32:42 UTC  

Silence seems awkward to a lot of people

2019-01-18 19:32:53 UTC  

not my problem tbh

2019-01-18 19:32:56 UTC  

forced small talk isn't fun

2019-01-18 19:33:00 UTC  

i'm good at it though

2019-01-18 19:33:11 UTC  

it's also unneeded

2019-01-18 19:33:21 UTC  

"how's the weather"

2019-01-18 19:33:36 UTC  

it's only something you do with people you barely meet

2019-01-18 19:33:39 UTC  

@Hiruzen you answer this question by "curl wttr.io"

2019-01-18 19:33:45 UTC  

real friends can take the silence without it being awkward

2019-01-18 19:33:45 UTC  

based

2019-01-18 19:33:47 UTC  

What do you do with people you meet everyday

2019-01-18 19:33:51 UTC  

Like I meet to work

2019-01-18 19:34:00 UTC  

I say goodmorning, they say morning back

2019-01-18 19:34:04 UTC  

And I just start my pc

2019-01-18 19:34:10 UTC  

...you don't need to say anything more?

2019-01-18 19:34:10 UTC  

and there can go fucking hours without a single word

2019-01-18 19:34:13 UTC  

Ah

2019-01-18 19:34:23 UTC  

if they don't approach you themselves it's fine to just stay quiet

2019-01-18 19:34:35 UTC  

So people don't find it weird that you don't say anything?

2019-01-18 19:34:45 UTC  

you say good morning, and if they try to force a conversation you say "I have work to do"

2019-01-18 19:34:45 UTC  

ez

2019-01-18 19:34:47 UTC  

I'm a fan of the "not talking unless you have something important" to say shit

2019-01-18 19:34:49 UTC  

i talk when it's needed or i want to say something

2019-01-18 19:34:51 UTC  

yeah

2019-01-18 19:34:57 UTC  

What if you want to make friends?

2019-01-18 19:35:01 UTC  

You do that in breaks or what

2019-01-18 19:35:08 UTC  

then i skip the small talk

2019-01-18 19:35:20 UTC  

i see someone talking about something im interested in, i approach them

2019-01-18 19:35:22 UTC  

y'know

2019-01-18 19:35:37 UTC  

and ask about it

2019-01-18 19:35:42 UTC  

yeah, that's how I go on doing it

2019-01-18 19:35:49 UTC  

I see.

2019-01-18 19:36:01 UTC  

I don't have many friends, but those that are my friends are good friends

2019-01-18 19:36:12 UTC  

people who have the same interests as me are usually spergs, so no interest in making friends

2019-01-18 19:36:22 UTC  

there's also this to consider

2019-01-18 19:36:29 UTC  

i've got 8-ish good friends and many more friends i don't see every day

2019-01-18 19:36:35 UTC  

I have like one friend, who barely talks because busy with work.

2019-01-18 19:36:41 UTC  

I have around 5