same here in pollackland, in govt sector at least

but they dont wanna you workin more than 8h cuz theyd have to pay for it

and chinese hate being home and being with their families so they love to be outside

ah they dont pay overtime in china usually

just a base salary plus end of year bonus

the average chinese man has a wife and child that he never sees

usually they live in another city and visit them only once a year or twice maybe

why even bother then

to look good

makes their family happy

makes their mom shutup

most married people dont like each other

if i were to marry a bitch, ... i guess...

they do it to stop the nagging

and chinese dont have passions or hobbies, so they just do whatever makes the nagging stop

and then live a shit boring life day to day

imagine all of your decisions in your life being decided by people you dont want to be around

tbh im not that far from it
but no wife to escape from in the first place 😂

i mean, the men will say that the jobs are better elsewhere

and thats true usually

but sometimes its literally like 500rmb more a month

(less than $100)

is that worth moving across the country away from your wife and infant son?

$100 SGD...

to me, i would do literally anything i could to stay

or bring them with me

but they seem to actively TRY to get away

under the guise of money

living with your family isnt the priority. giving money is # 1

money money money

When i lived with my wifes family - no one we knew lived with their family (unless retired)

what did i expect from chink culture

all the men were away

and came home once or twice a year for a few days

and even when they were home, they wouldnt be at the house

theyd find any excuse to get away

go to store, go drinking, go sit outside and stare at nothing

this included all the neighbors

(like 150 apartments)

so the whole place was filled with old people, young mothers, and infant children

when my wifes mom came to visit america