Message from @nonbenigncancer

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2019-01-22 03:32:01 UTC  

I've gotten ban out of sjw places for saying that it's required lol

2019-01-22 03:32:41 UTC  

Trenders hurt people who do suffer from gender dysphoria because they want to feel special

2019-01-22 03:33:05 UTC  

how do you tell the difference though?

2019-01-22 03:33:17 UTC  

Two sexes, male and female. Two genders, man and women. Two scoops no more

2019-01-22 03:33:23 UTC  

its based on that persons view of them selves

2019-01-22 03:33:36 UTC  

@triarii great question! One sec

2019-01-22 03:34:50 UTC  

The DSM-5 states that at least two of the following criteria for gender dysphoria must be experienced for at least six months' duration in adolescents or adults for diagnosis:[19]

A strong desire to be of a gender other than one's assigned gender
A strong desire to be treated as a gender other than one's assigned gender
A significant incongruence between one's experienced or expressed gender and one's sexual characteristics
A strong desire for the sexual characteristics of a gender other than one's assigned gender
A strong desire to be rid of one's sexual characteristics due to incongruence with one's experienced or expressed gender
A strong conviction that one has the typical reactions and feelings of a gender other than one's assigned gender
In addition, the condition must be associated with clinically significant distress or impairment.[19]

2019-01-22 03:35:13 UTC  

Get a trained medical professional to diagnose you with this

2019-01-22 03:36:49 UTC  

right, but some people respond well to medication?

2019-01-22 03:37:02 UTC  

not to force people into some form of treatment

2019-01-22 03:37:14 UTC  

but would it be better to "help" them

2019-01-22 03:37:22 UTC  

One big red flag for a trender is they take pride in the fact that they do not have dysphoria and two they never actually take hormones because they know that they are cis and taking hormones with cause their secondary sexually characteristics will change and will cause them dysphoria

2019-01-22 03:37:35 UTC  

ok

2019-01-22 03:38:59 UTC  

Well, they have been prescribing hormones since the sixties and have a good amount of long term research to show that cross sex hormone treatments is the best reliever of gender dysphoria

2019-01-22 03:39:26 UTC  

Actually doctors, not gender study bullshit

2019-01-22 03:39:34 UTC  

hormones for transition or blocking it?

2019-01-22 03:40:08 UTC  

For transition. Puberty blockers are immoral in my opinion

2019-01-22 03:40:41 UTC  

For adults with gender dysphoria for transition

2019-01-22 03:41:01 UTC  

ok

2019-01-22 03:44:48 UTC  

The best research based off of brain scans and post mortem of cis individuals, trans people who took hormones and trans people who never did, etc etc etc, points to it being caused by in utero due to mothers hormones causing the brain structure of the fetus to develop as the opposite sex. The brain lays down its structure well before genitals begins to develop

2019-01-22 04:15:41 UTC  

After reading all the information provided by you @Deleted User I still think trans people are nutters

2019-01-22 04:19:07 UTC  

That being said some are less nuts then others, the one I lived with was off her nut

2019-01-22 04:22:50 UTC  

Understandable. I think it's nutters to think you have to get something through your girlfriend's "thick head"

2019-01-22 05:16:59 UTC  

@BubblyNoodle That's not something i can agree to.

2019-01-22 05:20:15 UTC  

Which part shadows? I generally call people wtf I want to call them.
The nicer they are to me, or the more respect they earn, the more likely I am to address them as they most desire

2019-01-22 05:31:12 UTC  

I'm not one to want to lie about reality, so if someone offers me to do so, i will decline, maybe even nicely.

2019-01-22 06:17:35 UTC  

Mhmm maybe I am a bit nutters

2019-01-22 06:18:29 UTC  

Not so nuts that I want to cut off my cock or tits

2019-01-22 06:29:36 UTC  

What I mean is not nuts enough to mutilate my body

2019-01-22 08:14:02 UTC  

If you cut of your balls wouldn't that by definition make you not nuts? 🤔

2019-01-22 12:35:26 UTC  

@Shadows it's cool, if someone decides they want to be a self righteous cunt and call me a he regardless even after I've been super polite about it, it doesn't really matter.

2019-01-22 12:36:28 UTC  

Though sometimes I decide if they misgender me on purpose, I just do the same back.

2019-01-22 12:36:31 UTC  

🤷

2019-01-22 12:46:51 UTC  

Purposely misgendering someone who is being kind and polite about it is just virtue signaling

2019-01-22 12:47:56 UTC  

If you call somebody by their gender that is obvious for everyone to see, is it still misgendering?

2019-01-22 12:48:52 UTC  

Define obvious

2019-01-22 12:49:22 UTC  

I'll give you an example:
The Ma'am-guy

2019-01-22 12:54:21 UTC  

I use the Trying Rule. If the person is clearly trying to live as the appropriate gender but got bashed in with the genetic shovel, it's not their fault. There are tons of ugly ass cis women who look like men too

2019-01-22 12:54:57 UTC  

If they got some beard scruff, using their man voice, etc, um, no sorry, you get a he

2019-01-22 12:55:45 UTC  

So the Ma'am would have gotten a he for dropping to her man voice

2019-01-22 12:57:00 UTC  

Personally, I am not going to try and find out what your preferred way of being addressed is. In direct conversation between two people pronouns don't even come up, so it really shouldn't be a problem unless you make it one.