EXACTLY

Cautious ... but not too Careful. To live is to risk and if you don't know what matters to you, you are being TOO SAFE

Move... you aren't a tree..

@ManAnimal I'm talking military basic training crash course. Zero tolerance when it comes to failure & build people up in a positive way when you crash them to their breaking point. It's the only way

It is a good way ... but not the ONLY way

@ManAnimal It's the most effective way

Not for the overly cautious....

Pressure turns coal to diamonds.

You and I are coal.

Presure allso crushes stones to dust

@ManAnimal I'm not coal nor diamonds. I just know what works. You break someone down to their foundation, then build them up

If they never have any confidence, if they are smarter than most.... they will see avoiding risk as 'success'

Works for only one type of person though.

I am quite familar with the military style of deconstruction.

No it doesn't. It can work for anyone...as long as they are willing to change

Also drives many over the edge as well

how long are the call-ins usually

If someone is scared of their own shaddow, expecting them to march into a recuiter's office is beyond naive

One needs a degree of confidence and beleif they WILL OVERCOME to even have that thought

recruiters aren't even intimidating, they'll do nearly anything to get you enlisted

And those who suffer from Analysis Paralysis often stay that way

Not my point. My POINT is that if one is timid yet intelligent, they will tend to see military service with 'the grunts' as 'below them' an a waste

Smug doesn't survive basic. Smug doesn't ever consider enlisting

And unlike in our day, they can continue to live in their insulated bubble without being given a dose of reality

@Eigengrau Will go for another 45 or so mins minus superchat reading time!

Each call is supposed to be roughly 3 minutes

@Dangerous Spaces so probably 15 or so more call-ins tops yeah

"there is no 14" this discord deserves another class of co-host

C'mon @Blonde in the Belly of the Beast

lol

I Know a Fat Guy has a voice fit for radio, particular shock jock radio

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWZA8u_BCbM

'Tractor'

The Quiet room looks like a trucker's lot

Was just looking through the Live page on YouTube, the call in show is no where to be seen.

how do we hear through discord? I can't hear anything or am I not mean't to, Newbie here.

Whats the vetting process to make sure the person reporting you is a close friend. Oh ua were reeeeeeal tight, best friends actually. Ok, Red Flag granted

Would it be okay if someone said a "Matt and I once made love..." joke?

No but do it anyway

ohhh once just once

https://whatweknow.inequality.cornell.edu/topics/lgbt-equality/what-does-the-scholarly-research-say-about-the-wellbeing-of-children-with-gay-or-lesbian-parents/

Reporting your FRIEND? What IS this, the East GERMANY?!