Message from @A. Spader
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unlike children who have to deal with being in public school, homeschoolers end up being a little less adjusted than those who go to school. you can even see that in private school kids
especially private school kids who go to a religious centered schools (not including colleges)
yes and no
that's broadly true but that has so not been the case with so many people I know it's not really a fair statement
You can bring homeschooled kids to public schools for recess/lunch/PE/etc
It's been a thing for ages
or get them involved in sports
or other extracarricular activities
Or even just specific classes youre not confident teaching at home
even then, you cant ever really subject them to the same problems and such that they would face in a public school. the social aspect is a very unique thing
if you grow up your children correctly then public school shouldnt be a problem
umm wat
Wot
the thing is public school is where your kids will spend soooooo much of their time that on some level they are no longer your kids
that's certainly the view of most of the people who run public schools
if you make time for your kids and sit and spend time with them then they will continue to be your children
what time? School eats most if not all of your kid's time.
Public schooling has a tendency to hinder your kid's creative and autonomous development in favour of making them good at mostly useless systematized skills like test-taking
you can talk with them but the idea you're going to inoculate them with dinner conversations is wishful thinking
modern public education is alot more about conditioning than learning
thats what i hate about modern day "what time" to spend with the kid? after you get home... the problem with a lot of families today is that dad or mom come home and because theyre so tired from where ever they work they decide that they dont have time to sit down and spend with their child. It starts early and its especially prevalent with dads in the american house hold. men will come home and will sit down, eat dinner and go to sleep leaving room in there for tv and such.
you want to make dad great again
spend time with your children
you want to make the family unit great again
sure but a dinner conversation ain't changing 8 hours of school plus 3 hours of homework reinforcing it
spend time with your children
Youre competing against a full day of indoctrination with whatever energy you have after an 8 hour work day, curbed by their homework and study schedule
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But even refusing to try isn’t helping either
It's not refusing to try to look at alternatives to public schooling
Homeschooling and "unschooling" both have statistically better outcomes thus far
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And are more about spending time with your kid+complimenting that with tutoring and socialisation via school resources
yeah I've known fellow homeschoolers who have turned out socially awkward, but I've known *many* more who turned out to be friendly, engaging, well-adjusted individuals
this idea that homeschooling dooms you to a life as some virgin outcast is simply false
I went to public school and was tremendously socially awkward
To the point of like, difficulty projecting and issues with anxiety
Find something with your child that would make them interested in actually having a "social" interaction with you
I just worked on training myself out of it
I mean... it works out for me