Message from @A. Spader

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2019-10-03 22:40:59 UTC  
2019-10-03 22:41:08 UTC  

I wonder if my daughter will say the same once she grows up

2019-10-03 22:41:10 UTC  

Yeah, she's having a really hard time growing a beard, too

2019-10-03 22:41:19 UTC  

@C1PHER shots fired

2019-10-03 22:41:20 UTC  

O O F

2019-10-03 22:41:39 UTC  

@uncephalized that's fair

2019-10-03 22:42:27 UTC  

Also I can confirm on the forced to grow up part. My husband had to grow up a whole lot after we got married.

2019-10-03 22:42:54 UTC  

Its just a part of the process

2019-10-03 22:43:03 UTC  

despite what kevin will inevitably say when I bring up this example, there's a reason the jews married young

2019-10-03 22:43:15 UTC  

it *does* force you to mature rapidly

2019-10-03 22:43:19 UTC  

That's another good side effect of being married I guess

2019-10-03 22:43:25 UTC  

that no one really takes into account

2019-10-03 22:43:42 UTC  

The whole "partner" bullshit just makes it easy to split ways and shirk responsibility

2019-10-03 22:43:46 UTC  

^

2019-10-03 22:44:01 UTC  

Its a great side effect. You have to learn how to live with another person and not only take your own needs into account anymore

2019-10-03 22:44:38 UTC  

Its very fulfilling and meaningful

2019-10-03 22:44:51 UTC  

Growing *with* another person

2019-10-03 22:45:08 UTC  

the thing *I* find most annoying is the belief by many that love is synomomous with pleasure or enjoyment. No, love is sacrifice.

2019-10-03 22:45:43 UTC  

Sacrifice indeed

2019-10-03 22:46:41 UTC  

right

2019-10-03 22:46:49 UTC  

to put the other person before yourself

2019-10-03 22:47:14 UTC  

to fulfill them, not seek for them to fulfill you

2019-10-03 22:47:37 UTC  

This chat is getting all wholesome again

2019-10-03 22:48:57 UTC  

WHO PUT THE FAGGOT FLAG

2019-10-03 22:48:59 UTC  

Y’all one of the things I learned growing up is if you get home before your husband make sure the house is clean for him

2019-10-03 22:50:16 UTC  

Nah. Food has priority

2019-10-03 22:50:38 UTC  
2019-10-03 22:51:10 UTC  

Tbh slow cookers have taught me that tasty food is easy as shit

2019-10-03 22:51:12 UTC  

@Legalize I fell ya bro

2019-10-03 22:51:24 UTC  

let me know if you figure a way out

2019-10-03 22:52:11 UTC  

@Beemann slow cooked brisket 👌

2019-10-03 22:52:13 UTC  

Also may have to steal one of your wahmen/get pulled into your country, neighbours

2019-10-03 22:52:22 UTC  

@Legalize ahh the hollywood solution

2019-10-03 22:52:34 UTC  

*laughs in seven brides for seven brothers*

2019-10-03 22:52:42 UTC  

Work out, shower, learn how to cook, be economically attractive = success

2019-10-03 22:52:50 UTC  

Just the way things are working out so far

2019-10-03 22:52:59 UTC  

@pussydestroyer got all those but the last one

2019-10-03 22:53:08 UTC  

college makes me dead broke

2019-10-03 22:53:12 UTC  

@pussydestroyer got all those except the first one lmao

2019-10-03 22:53:16 UTC  

but hey, no student loans

2019-10-03 22:53:20 UTC  

I've let myself go since I got kicked out of the army