I could use the support of my brothers right now

Fuck me

I'm to be honest right now

This sound really bad

It is

I hate myself every day for what I did; she and I function in what you might refer to as an alternative relationship structure. We had some ground rules and I broke them when she broke my trust... and in turn, i broke her trust...

She's constantly thinking about how she can get past things

She wants to

But it's like she's ready to do a HALO jump

But can't bring herself to acknowledge the green light

Did you tried theraphy?

I'm in therapy actually

But she's not ready to go with me

I'm looking for suggestions as to how I can encourage her mind to take this opportunity with me again

I mean, y'all must've had relationships before where you've fucked up and had to do something important to fix it

If she cares she will do it

She need to know that you want to be with her and this therapis is going to help you both be happy togeder

Perhaps you're right

Thanks

And if she cares about kid kid should have father and you will be MVP at being father my man

I would die for that kid. And I would live for him too.

Even i know that i'm sure you will be a great father

Thank you

Well I haven't slept yet

Two nights of waking up freaking out or just not sleeping

I feel you same here

That being said, Alexei don't sweat the small shit, you're gonma be a good dad. Just make sure the kid knows you love him

@DAnteForneus shit sucks my dude

I know

I hope i can get a night full of sleep soon

I would just acknowledge that you both messed up and you need to work on it together as a unit, if you both broke each other's trust then you can both improve on it together and regain each other's trust

If you think you're at the bottom and want to go to the top, do step by step

Do something sweet for her

A gift or something

Just level with her brother. Tell her how you truly feel. Tell her what you feel in your heart of hearts.

@AKAlexei

She knows

Tell her anyways. Tell her all of your dreams and hopes brother, make sure she knows that you truly want to be a family with her, to build something together

I've been doing that actually

It matters. Women are weird man. They like that shit. Or so I've been told. I didnt even try to fight for my last relationship. It just wasn't worth it.

I might try talking with girl i like about it @Deleted User it might help