if i have a girlfriend we are having sex

should rape be illegal

that goes without saying

ok that's really cringe bro

Lmfao

Pre Martial sex is determinatal to the social cohesion and allows for more degenerate and socially harmful actions and ways of thinking to arise, no good person would allow it

im not convinced by this reactionary idea

marriage is a social construct

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an important one

This does not mean it is inheritly bad, rather the opposite is true as it is good.

it means it there is no dialectical reasoning for why sex before it would have an efffect on society

youre better off seeing why marriage is around in the first place

Because it means people will find it more accepting to go and do much more socially determinatal actions.

Monogamy is a must

i do not think me having sex right now is going to make me shoot heroin in the future

monogamy existed before marriage

It was essentially proto-marriage

no its a form of human organization

Dedicating your love to only one person, marriage then solidified that for life

marriage is superstructural reflection on the nature of the base - of the landed classes with property and estates who didn't want to lose them

marriage heals fractured relations with other aristocratic lines and perpetuates them

a social construct utilizing a form of human organization

monogamy does not mean no premarital sex

How is premarital sex of any benefit

it is to the benefit of a budding relationship

More premarital sex leads to less happiness, this is statistical fact which in turns means less productive output in their labor

statistical fact is an oxymoron and i dont believe that either way

Premarital sex is not necessary nor of major benefit to cohesion of a couple

sex is a major benefit to the cohesion of a couple

it releases happy hormones and bonding hormones

there are much more important factors relating to output

More so the most influential factors of a stable relationship is a common interest and set of ideals

sex is integral to a relationship anon

the is always a physical side to these romantic ideals

No, it is a beneficial when used on top of a stable relationship

A relationship with sex as the main cohesion force will fail every time

a relationship will not remain stable if you take away the sex

both sides need it and it bolsters the relationship

and it's kinda the only way to perpetuate

Likewise, a relationship will not remain stable if there is no common set of ideals or intrests